The discovery that our wishes have little or no authority in the world
brings with it experience of the necessity that is in the nature of
things. The lesson of this experience is one from which we shrink and
to which few ever wholly accommodate themselves. The world of the child
is a kind of enchanted island. The labor that went into procuring his
food, his clothes, his toys, is wholly invisible at first. His earliest
expectations are, therefore, that somehow the Lord will provide. Only
gradually does the truth come home to him how much effort it costs to
satisfy his wants. It takes even longer for him to understand that not
only does he not get what he wants by asking for it but he cannot be
sure to get what he wants by working for it. It is not easy to accept
the knowledge that desire, that prayer, that effort can be and often
are frustrated, that in the nature of things [p188] there is much
fumbling, trial and error, deadlock and defeat.
The sense of evil is acquired late; by many persons it is never
acquired at all. Children suffer, and childhood is by no means so
unreservedly happy as some make it out to be. But childish suffering
is not inherently tragic. It is not stamped with the irrevocability
which the adult feels to be part of the essence of evil. Evil for the
child is something which can be explained away, made up for, done away
with. Pretentious philosophies have been built on this fancy purporting
somehow to absorb the evil of the world in an all-embracing goodness,
as a child’s tears are dried by its mother’s kisses. The discovery that
there is evil which is as genuine as goodness, that there is ugliness
and violence which are no less real than joy and love, is one of those
discoveries that the adult is forced somehow to accept in his valuation
of experience.
And then there is the knowledge, which only experience can give, that
everything changes and that everything comes to an end. It is possible
to tell a child about mortality, but to realize it he must live long
enough to experience it. This knowledge does not come from words; it
comes in feeling, in the feeling that he himself is older, in the
death of kin and friends, in seeing well-known objects wear out, in
discarding old things, in awakening to the sense that there is a whole
new generation in the world which looks upon him as old. There is an
intimation of immortality in our youth because we have not yet had
experience of mortality. The persons and the things which surround us
seem eternal because [p189] we have known them too briefly to realize
that they change. We have seen neither their beginning nor their end.
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