On this aspect of birth control the liberal reformers have, I think,
been until recently more than a little disingenuous. They have been
arguing for the removal of the prohibitory laws, and they have built
their case on two [p291] main theses. They have argued, first, that
the limitation of births was sound public policy for economic and
eugenic reasons; and second, that it was necessary to the happiness
of families, the health of mothers, and the welfare of children. All
these reasons may be unimpeachable. I think they are. But it was idle
to pretend that the dissemination of this knowledge, even if legally
confined to the instruction of married women by licensed physicians,
could be kept from the rest of the adult population. Obviously that
which all married couples are permitted to know every one is bound
to know. Human curiosity will make that certain. Now this is what
the Christian churches, especially the Roman Catholic, which oppose
contraception on principle, instantly recognized. They were quite
right. They were quite right, too, in recognizing that whether or
not birth control is eugenic, hygienic, and economic, it is the most
revolutionary practice in the history of sexual morals.
For when conception could be prevented, there was an end to the theory
that woman submits to the embrace of the male only for purposes of
procreation. She had to be persuaded to co-operate, and no possible
reason could be advanced except that the pleasure was reciprocal.
She had to understand and inwardly assent to the principle that it
is proper to have sexual intercourse with her husband and to prevent
conception. She had, therefore, to give up the whole traditional theory
which she may have only half-believed anyway, that sexual intercourse
was an impure means to a noble end. She could no longer believe that
procreation alone mitigated the vileness of cohabiting with a man, and
so she had to change her valuation [p292] and accept it as inherently
delightful. Thus by an inevitable process the practice of contraception
led husbands and wives to the conviction that they need not be in the
least ashamed of their desires for each other.
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