Married people -- Fiction; Mothers-in-law -- Fiction
"MY DEAR THEODORA:--Your mother and I have thoroughly
considered all your good brother-in-law has told us. I will not
dwell on our surprise and sorrow. I will but say, that you
ought to put an end at once to a life which is dwarfing you on
every side, and must be fast ruining your husband's better
nature. For the cruelty and injustice done at first reluctantly
has evidently become to him a necessary alternative to the
dreariness of his business life. As some men find amusement in
badgering and baiting animals, he apparently satisfies the same
brutal instinct by baiting a wife whom our cruel laws has
placed in his absolute power. I counsel you to leave him before
conditions are worse, and some tragedy results. Take David
Campbell's advice as to the locality where you may dwell in
peace and safety. I approve what he has proposed to us so
entirely, that whenever you are ready to move, your mother and
I will go with you, though it should be to the ends of the
earth. Think a moment, and you will understand that you must go
with us, and not with your brother-in-law. I shall write to the
Chairman of Conference to-day and resign my pastorate, and you
know a Methodist preacher and his wife can move almost at a
day's notice. Our clothing is all we personally own. My future
is prepared for. There is nothing to fear. The Great Companion
will go with us. Wherever your new home is made, our home will
be made, and we will pray together for the man you still love.
He will return to you "clothed and in his right mind." Do not
doubt. Go away and rest your aching heart. Has the sun of your
love set? Some blessing lies in the night; do not fear the
darkness. Rest, and the sun of love will rise again. I append a
few reasons why you should at this crisis leave your husband.
If you are fully satisfied in your own mind, you can neglect
them.
"1st. Habit reconciles us to much suffering, but a miserable
marriage is a trial no one has any business to have. It is
without excuse, and therefore without comfort. Submission to
evils God ordains is the height of energy and nobility;
submission to the mistakes we ourselves make is the climax of
weakness and cowardice. If two cannot live together in peace,
they had better separate than cause each other to sin every
day.
"2d. If you know you are on a wrong road, leave it; a wrong
road cannot lead you right.
"3d. If you are sick, and the surgeon's knife is necessary, do
not waste time with drugs and sedatives. Accept the knife as
restorative.
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