World War, 1914-1918 -- Personal narratives, American
There was a girl who came under her care shortly before her baby was
born. It was a fine little boy, fortunately the image of its mother.
She had lost everything in the war, father, mother, home, and she clung
passionately to her child. Only, at times, she wept bitterly thinking
of the young soldier she had hoped to marry, and who was ignorant of
what had befallen her.
Madame de Ste. Croix looked up the young man, found his regiment, and
arranged a meeting with him. His agony when she told him was great, but
not for an instant was his allegiance to his sweetheart shaken. He had
mourned her as dead and he blessed the noble woman who restored her to
him again.
“What has happened is not conceivably her fault,” declared this fine
young soldier. “I love her more for what she has suffered. If I could
I would marry her to-morrow and be a father to her child. But I am not
sure that I can. I am not sure that it would be for her happiness.”
With tears in his eyes the man told Madame de Ste. Croix that he was
under twenty-five, and until after a man has passed that age he may
not, according to French law, marry without the consent of his mother.
This young man’s parents, he explained, were small town folk with a
small town point of view.
Their morality was a little narrow-minded, and he feared that they
would never consent to his marriage with a girl who had suffered at the
hands of the Hun. They would pity her, of course, but they would not
want her for a daughter. They would never be able to love the child.
“Let me go away now,” he implored, “and try to think what is best to be
done.”
A week later he returned with a radiant face. He had obtained leave and
had gone home to see his mother. There, on his knees, he had told her a
lie, one that must have been recorded in Heaven to his favor. He told
her that he was the father of that girl’s baby, that he had wronged
her, and now begged permission to right the wrong by marrying her.
The mother’s reproaches were severe, and the poor young man had the
pain of seeing her suffer for what she thought was his guilt. But after
she had been induced to look at the baby’s picture her good heart was
awakened. She agreed to the marriage and promised to love and care for
the mother and child until the end of the war.
This man was a simple soldier, a child of working people. He did not
know that he was heroic, and in fact what he did has been matched by
scores of men in France. Very often after the Germans violated women
and children in the invaded towns and villages, they murdered them
cruelly. Those left alive have been cherished by their men, only too
thankful that they were spared.
“Not that the men do not suffer,” said Madame de Ste. Croix. “We prize
virtue and stainlessness in women. But we love justice more. And if
this dreadful thing is hard on men whose betrothed are wronged, how
much harder it is on a man whose wife has borne children to the brutal
boche.
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