A Woman's Quest: The life of Marie E. Zakrzewska, M.D.Zakrzewska, Marie E. (Marie Elizabeth)
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A Woman's Quest: The life of Marie E. Zakrzewska, M.D.
Zakrzewska, Marie E. (Marie Elizabeth)
Women physicians -- United States -- Biography; Zakrzewska, Marie E. (Marie Elizabeth), 1829-1902
I found the family of six living in two rooms heated by the kitchen
stove. The children were ill with scarlatina. All around was
the evidence of poverty, although not destitution nor degrading
squalor. By observation and subsequent inquiry, I soon learned the
cause of this changed condition. It was simply this--Mary, who
had gradually adapted herself with grace and intelligence to the
comforts of the rich house in which she had lived from her fifteenth
to her twenty-fourth year, could not now conform herself to the
smaller means and ways of living of a wife and mother in moderate
circumstances.
She had learned to cook delicate, expensive viands, had a sure belief
that tenderloin is the only steak fit for eating, and had great
skill in the pretty and dainty ornamentation of the babies. These
tastes which she acquired in the rich merchant’s family could not be
gratified with the workman’s means; she had unlearned the thrifty
habits among which she had lived as a schoolgirl in her parents’ home
and she became confused in her methods of work, while the steady
increase in her family reduced her in strength and added to her cares
and labors, a condition not inclined to promote the good temper of the
naturally amiable woman.
Ofter now, the husband, returning home from his work, found no table
laid for dinner, and still oftener must he start out early in the
morning to find a breakfast in a neighboring eating house, which is
always the first step towards finding rest and companionship in the
saloon.
This was the condition as it unfolded itself to me during my brief
attendance. The children recovered, and with the aid of cod-liver oil
and tonics provided by the charity of the dispensary, soon regained
full health.
A little more than a year passed when one day in October, 1876, Mary
presented herself in my private consulting room. She looked haggard
and pale, was poorly clad and in a desperate frame of mind. Her
husband had gone from bad to worse. He paid the rent for two shabby
small rooms in an old house and provided weekly the coal for the
kitchen stove. All the rest of his earnings he spent for his own
meals. Often, if he came home at all at night, it was in a state of
partial intoxication. Naturally, no firm dared give him regular
employment and he supported himself by odd jobs.
The poor woman had resorted to needlework for support, this being the
only means for her to earn money and look after her children, whom she
could not send to school for lack of shoes and decent clothing.
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