A Woman's Quest: The life of Marie E. Zakrzewska, M.D.Zakrzewska, Marie E. (Marie Elizabeth)
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A Woman's Quest: The life of Marie E. Zakrzewska, M.D.
Zakrzewska, Marie E. (Marie Elizabeth)
Women physicians -- United States -- Biography; Zakrzewska, Marie E. (Marie Elizabeth), 1829-1902
_During vacation months, Marie teaches German--Becomes working guest
in family of Rev. A. D. Mayo--Meets many noted men and women--Her
mother dies on the voyage to New York and is buried at sea--Marie
returns to New York, visits Dr. Blackwell, and finds the Infirmary is
still closed--She goes to Boston to visit Dr. Hunt--Meets the Grimké
sisters--Learns of the New England Female Medical College--Meets
William Lloyd Garrison, Theodore Parker, Wendell Phillips, and other
noted people--Returns to Cleveland and becomes the guest of Mrs.
C. Vaughan for her closing term at college--Meets Lyceum speakers,
professors, political and social leaders, and literary men and women
from various parts of the country. (Twenty-six years of age: 1855.)_
Within a few days, there were found some pupils to whom I might teach
German. There also came a proposition from Mrs. Mayo who was expecting
her first baby within a very short time. The proposition was that I
should become a general member of the family, attending to her needs
as well as aiding in the housekeeping, etc., till the arrival of her
mother later in the spring.
In April, I removed my possessions into that hospitable house which
offered its little to me who had less. Both Mr. and Mrs. Mayo were
really nervous invalids, and the troubles and trials of their position
as anti-slavery advocates and religious reformers bore heavily upon
them and kept their purse lean. However, I had no personal needs
further than my board, as my clothing was still good in spite of my two
years in America.
I found many dear and valued friends during my residence in Cleveland,
but none to whom I am bound in lasting gratitude as to Mr. Mayo, who
offered me his assistance when he learned that I was in need, my extra
expenses having swallowed up the little money that I had brought with
me, so that I had not even enough to return to my sisters in New York.
As the minister of a small congregation advocating Liberal ideas, he
had a hard position in Cleveland, both socially and pecuniarily, yet he
offered to share his little with me. I was forced to accept it, and I
am now, and have always been, glad that I did so.
No one that has not had the experience can appreciate the happiness
that comes with the feeling that a rich man has not cast a fragment of
his superfluity towards you (and here let me remark that it is next to
impossible to find wealth and generosity go together in friendship),
but that the help comes from one who must work for it as well as the
recipient. It proves the existence of the mutual appreciation that is
known by the name of “friendship.” The apple given by a friend is worth
ten times more than a whole orchard bestowed in such a way as to make
you feel that the gift is but the superfluity of the donor.
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