Abraham Lincoln: The True Story of a Great Life, Volume 1 (of 2)Herndon, William Henry
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Abraham Lincoln: The True Story of a Great Life, Volume 1 (of 2)
Herndon, William Henry
Lincoln, Abraham, 1809-1865
* While dressing for the wedding in his room at Butler's
house, the latter's little boy, Speed, seeing Lincoln so
handsomely attired, in boyish innocence asked him where he
was going? "To hell, I suppose," was Lincoln's reply.
With Miss Todd a different motive, but one equally as unfortunate,
prompted her adherence to the union. To marry Lincoln meant not a life
of luxury and ease, for Lincoln was not a man to accumulate wealth; but
in him she saw position in society, prominence in the world, and
the grandest social distinction. By that means her ambition would be
satisfied. Until that fatal New Year's day in 1841 she may have loved
him, but his action on that occasion forfeited her affection. He had
crushed her proud, womanly spirit. She felt degraded in the eyes of the
world. Love fled at the approach of revenge. Some writer--it is Junius,
I believe--has said that, "Injuries may be forgiven and forgotten,
but insults admit of no compensation: they degrade the mind in its own
self-esteem and force it to recover its level by revenge." Whether Mrs.
Lincoln really was moved by the spirit of revenge or not she acted along
the lines of human conduct. She led her husband a wild and merry
dance. If, in time, she became soured at the world it was not without
provocation, and if in later years she unchained the bitterness of a
disappointed and outraged nature, it followed as logically as an effect
does the cause.
I have told this sad story as I know and have learned it. In rehearsing
the varied scenes of the drama,* I have unearthed a few facts that seem
half-buried, perhaps, but they were not destined to lay buried deep or
long. The world will have the truth as long as the name of Lincoln is
remembered by mankind.
* For many years I had reason to believe that Sarah Rickard,
who was a sister of Mrs. William Butler, had been the
recipient of some attentions at the hand of Mr. Lincoln. The
lady, long since married, is now living in a Western State.
I applied to her for information recently, and after some
entreaty received this answer in her own handwriting: "As an
old friend I will answer the question propounded to me,
though I can scarcely see what good it can do history. Mr.
Lincoln did make a proposal of marriage to me in the summer,
or perhaps later, in the year of 1840. He brought to my
attention the accounts in the Bible of the patriarch
Abraham's marriage to Sarah, and used that historical union
as an argument in his own behalf. My reason for declining
his proposal was the wide difference in our ages. I was then
only sixteen, and had given the subject of matrimony but
very little, if any, thought. I entertained the highest
regard for Mr. Lincoln. He seemed almost like an older
brother, being, as it were, one of my sister's family."
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