The chapter of bullying among boys is one on which a man enters with
reluctance. Boys are, on the whole, such good fellows, and so full of
fine unsophisticated qualities, that the mature mind would gladly turn
away its eyes from beholding their iniquities. Even a cruel bully does
not inevitably and invariably develop into a bad man. He is, let us
hope, only passing through the savage stage, in which the torture of
prisoners is a recognised institution. He has, perhaps, too little
imagination to understand the pain he causes. Very often bullying is not
physically cruel, but only a perverted sort of humour, such as Kingsley,
in "Hypatia," recognised among his favourite Goths. I remember a feeble
foolish boy at school (feeble he certainly was, and was thought foolish)
who became the subject of much humorous bullying. His companions used to
tie a thin thread round his ear, and attach this to a bar at such a
height that he could only avoid breaking it by standing on tiptoe. But
he was told that he must not break the thread. To avoid infringing this
commandment, he put himself to considerable inconvenience and afforded
much enjoyment to the spectators.
Men of middle age, rather early middle age, remember the two following
species of bullying to which they were subjected, and which, perhaps, are
obsolescent. Tall stools were piled up in a pyramid, and the victim was
seated on the top, near the roof of the room. The other savages brought
him down from this bad eminence by hurling other stools at those which
supported him. Or the victim was made to place his hands against the
door, with the fingers outstretched, while the young tormentors played at
the Chinese knife-trick. They threw knives, that is to say, at the door
between the apertures of the fingers, and, as a rule, they hit the
fingers and not the door. These diversions I know to be correctly
reported, but the following pretty story is, perhaps, a myth. At one of
the most famous public schools, a praepostor, or monitor, or sixth-form
boy having authority, heard a pistol-shot in the room above his own. He
went up and found a big boy and a little boy. They denied having any
pistol. The monitor returned to his studies, again was sure he heard a
shot, went up, and found the little boy dead. The big boy had been
playing the William Tell trick with him, and had hit his head instead of
the apple. That is the legend. Whether it be true or false, all boys
will agree that the little victim could not have escaped by complaining
to the monitor. No. Death before dishonour. But the side not so seamy
of this picture of school life is the extraordinary power of honour among
boys. Of course the laws of the secret society might well terrify a
puerile informer. But the sentiment of honour is even more strong than
fear, and will probably outlast the very disagreeable circumstances in
which it was developed.
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