Now we find that Christian teaching and monogamy have conduced to
stricter morality among the people, and also to an increase in the
birth-rate. In the old days there was in every village on the Lower
Congo a house called _Mbongi_, or _Nzo-a-matoko_ (house for young men),
where the lads and unmarried men slept. Girls from an early age had free
ingress to these houses, and their mothers encouraged them to go. These
houses have been cleared out of all the villages where there is any
Christian influence at work, and even from heathen villages also, for
they have been greatly influenced by the purer public opinion of recent
years. Now that monogamy is practised by so many, the young men know
that in due time they will be able to secure a wife, and they desire to
receive her as pure as possible, hence the closing of these village
bachelor houses even in the heathen towns. Christian parents also use
their best endeavour to preserve their daughters in innocency.
We have within a stone’s-throw of Wathen Station a Christian village
where monogamy is the rule without exception. There are twenty-four
married women living there with their husbands, and they have between
them fifty-seven children now living (noted in 1908), and five have
died, making in all sixty-two births. Some of these have only been
married eighteen months or two years, and there is no doubt that as the
years go by there will be many more children born to these twenty-four
wives. Now the same number of women tied to one man would not have had a
tenth of the children. Again, we have throughout our districts a large
number of teachers, many of whom are married, and most of them have
children—one, two, or three, according to the length of time they have
been married. There is another noticeable thing, that in the Christian
villages, i.e. the monogamous villages, there are plenty of children,
while the same cannot be said of the heathen in polygamous villages.
Some seem to think that polygamy spells large families and a fair state
of morality; but on the Congo, and I speak of what I know, polygamy
means a very low birth-rate and an absolute lack of morality and common
decency. Polygamy is giving place to monogamy, and that means a higher
morality, a purer and more self-respecting womanhood, and the
introduction of a truer affection between the husband and the wife which
will result in a better and more healthy home-life for the children, and
will lead to the coming of a brighter day on dark, oppressed Africa.
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CHAPTER IX
NATIVE EDUCATION
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