If you ask a native chief, husband of many wives, how many children he
has, he will state an absurd number, not because he desires to deceive
you, but for the following reasons: All the children, of his brothers
and sisters, and all their children’s children, are spoken of as the
chief’s children, as he is the head of the family, i.e. all the nephews
and nieces, the grand-nephews and grand-nieces are regarded as a man’s
own off-spring, besides his own children and grandchildren; many of us
could make up large families in this way. And again, the native has a
very strong superstition and prejudice against counting his children,
for he believes that if he does so, or if he states the proper number,
the evil spirits will hear it and some of his children will die; hence
when you ask him such a simple question as, “How many children have
you?” you stir up his superstitious fears, and he will answer: “I don’t
know.” If you press him, he will tell you sixty, or one hundred
children, or any other number that jumps to his tongue; and even then he
is thinking of those who, from the native view of kinship, are regarded
as his children, and desiring to deceive, not you, but those ubiquitous
and prowling evil spirits, he states a large number that leaves a wide
margin. I have been introduced by young men to men, much older than
themselves, as “my children,” and there was a twinkle in their eyes,
showing that they appreciated the humorous absurdity of the situation.
Among the Congo languages there is no proper word for virgin, for there
was not in the old days a pure girl above the age of five. I would,
therefore, most emphatically dissent from the oft-repeated fallacious
statement that polygamy promotes morality among native tribes; that it
has caused widespread immorality on the Congo is truer to the facts.
After carefully reviewing all the data I am forced to the conclusion
that polygamy is not necessitated by the climate, but is the natural
outcome of their customs, mode of thought, and view of life. A Congo man
will fight, trade, carry heavy loads for long distances, and work, but
he will not hoe the ground, that is _infra dig._ to him. He will dig the
white man’s farm, but he will not work land in his own village, so, to
use his own words, he “hires” or “borrows” a woman to do this for him,
and the more women he has the less likely is he to go hungry. Again, the
more women he has the more important he is, the greater his influence
and social standing; when a native wants to impress you with the
greatness of his chief or the importance of the head of his family, he
tells you the number of his wives, and he does not mind adding a dozen
to the sum total.
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