Among the An-ko-me-nums, or Flathead Tribes of Indians of the Pacific Coast — John Shaqi
Among the An-ko-me-nums, or Flathead Tribes of Indians of the Pacific CoastCrosby, Thomas
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Among the An-ko-me-nums, or Flathead Tribes of Indians of the Pacific Coast
Crosby, Thomas
Indians of North America -- Missions; Salish Indians
It is wonderful, when the Gospel light came in and the Spirit of God
took hold of the people, how they themselves commenced to see the
evils of this custom and immediately endeavored to rectify it. It was
a matter that could not have been forced upon them, but gradually
they arranged it. The oldest one, perhaps, was put away with an ample
dowry. Another, who had no family ties, married another man who had
no wife, and, growing out of this system of polygamy, who never had a
chance to have one. The one whose growing family of little ones laid
heavy responsibilities upon her was usually retained. And thus, by the
blessing of God, this most difficult problem was solved, and polygamy
was almost entirely done away with.
FIRST CHRISTIAN MARRIAGE.
Very interesting to me was the first marriage I performed among this
people. It took place in the year 1871, on the Songees reserve, the
territory of the noted old King Free-zee, opposite Victoria, in the
home of Amos Shee-hats-ton (our first convert in that tribe), which
had been used for prayer and class-meetings. The couple had been
waiting till I should be ordained, so as to have it in their own
language. There were present about twenty of the natives, including
their teachers. The weather was warm and the door wide open, and the
contracting parties stood with their backs to the door.
As it was the first marriage I had performed, I was a little nervous,
and had to keep a close look at the book. Just when I reached the
point of asking the bride, “Wilt thou have this man to be thy wedded
husband?” I glanced up, and lo! she was just slipping out of the door.
Taking in the situation, and seeing that the crowd were looking very
serious, I started up singing, “Shall we gather at the river,” a hymn
with which they were familiar.
We had nearly sung it through when she came peeping in at the door, as
if she had a lingering desire to have the thing finished up. So I got
hold of her hand and drew her towards him, placed her hand in his, laid
my hand over them both, and held on until I had finished the ceremony.
With this memory before me I have married many hundreds since, and
never failed to place my hand upon theirs, and hold on until the
ceremony was completed.
CHAPTER XI. _FOODS, FEASTS AND FOLLIES._
“Those who attempt to reason us out of our follies begin at the
wrong end, since the attempt naturally presupposes us capable of
reason.”--_Goldsmith._
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