“He who can manage property of one toman, can manage one of an hundred
thousand,” says an Indian proverb; and I, for my part, will enlarge
upon this Asiatic adage and declare, that he who can govern one woman
can govern a nation, and indeed there is very much similarity between
these two governments. Must not the policy of husbands be very nearly
the same as the policy of kings? Do not we see kings trying to amuse
the people in order to deprive them of their liberty; throwing food at
their heads for one day, in order to make them forget the misery of a
whole year; preaching to them not to steal and at the same time
stripping them of everything; and saying to them: “It seems to me that
if I were the people I should be virtuous”? It is from England that we
obtain the precedent which husbands should adopt in their houses. Those
who have eyes ought to see that when the government is running smoothly
the Whigs are rarely in power. A long Tory ministry has always
succeeded an ephemeral Liberal cabinet. The orators of a national party
resemble the rats which wear their teeth away in gnawing the rotten
panel; they close up the hole as soon as they smell the nuts and the
lard locked up in the royal cupboard. The woman is the Whig of our
government. Occupying the situation in which we have left her she might
naturally aspire to the conquest of more than one privilege. Shut your
eyes to the intrigues, allow her to waste her strength in mounting half
the steps of your throne; and when she is on the point of touching your
sceptre, fling her back to the ground, quite gently and with infinite
grace, saying to her: “Bravo!” and leaving her to expect success in the
hereafter. The craftiness of this manoeuvre will prove a fine support
to you in the employment of any means which it may please you to choose
from your arsenal, for the object of subduing your wife.
Such are the general principles which a husband should put into
practice, if he wishes to escape mistakes in ruling his little kingdom.
Nevertheless, in spite of what was decided by the minority at the
council of Macon (Montesquieu, who had perhaps foreseen the coming of
constitutional government has remarked, I forget in what part of his
writings, that good sense in public assemblies is always found on the
side of the minority), we discern in a woman a soul and a body, and we
commence by investigating the means to gain control of her moral
nature. The exercise of thought, whatever people may say, is more noble
than the exercise of bodily organs, and we give precedence to science
over cookery and to intellectual training over hygiene.
MEDITATION XI.
INSTRUCTION IN THE HOME.
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