The funerals, as one would naturally suppose, are more ceremonious,
more ritualistic, and although there is now generally a minimum of
festivity connected with them, this has not always been so. [178]
When the condition of a sick person is beyond hope, the priest is
notified and the person is given confession, communion, and extreme
unction. After death the eyes and mouth are closed, the body washed and
dressed up in the newest and cleanest clothes to be had, and the arms
crossed on the breast. [179] Two candles are kept burning until the day
of the funeral, one at the foot and one at the head of the coffin. Sad,
wooden bells are sounded, and guests are invited to pay their last
respects. Coffee is served to them, but without sugar, as a sign of
grief. Mourning women are secured, who eulogize the departed and weep
and lament until the priests begin their chanting. The corpse is now
taken to the church in a special coffin which is covered with a black
velvet cloth adorned with small white crosses, among the wealthy, but
among the poor the body is wrapped in linen and laid in a simple bier,
carried by relatives and friends. At the head of the procession, which
marches very slowly and chants on the way, there are carried a great
cross and two lighted torches, followed by the priests and then by
the coffin. The passer-by must stop and cross himself many times. At
the church the coffin is laid down, and if the relatives are wealthy
each person in the church is provided with a small wax candle which
is kept lighted during the service. While the ceremony proceeds the
body is blessed with holy water and perfumed with incense, after which
the procession re-forms to accompany the body to the cemetery. The
chanting is kept up all the way. At the cemetery the body is lowered
into its last resting-place, and the priest, after making the sign of
the cross on the four corners of the grave, throws three shovelfuls
of earth into it and three more on the coffin. The people imitate
by throwing three handfuls of dust, and the ceremony completed, all
return to the home of the deceased where they partake of steaming
broth prepared by the neighbors and friends, and recite prayers for
the soul of the dead. This latter practice, as said before, is a pagan
survival, as is also the chanting of mass for the departed, which
occurs three days later, at which time broth is again distributed,
but this time to the poor as a sacrifice to the dead. The grave is
blessed on the third day, again on the ninth, at the close of the
third month, and for the last time, at the close of the year.
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