The self-sufficiency of the Armenian people has been indicated in
the repeated failures of missionary religions and foreign cultures to
alter appreciably the native folkways and mores. In spite of political
subordination to Islam, the Gregorian church has held tenaciously
to its ideals and has successfully maintained its independence. The
distinctive social tradition,--which includes the political and the
religious traditions,--has remained intact in the face of recurrent
invasion, vassalage, and persecution. The Armenian will not be
assimilated. Death is preferable to the loss of those intangible
realities that make the people a distinctive group. When Haic, the
patriarchal progenitor of the race, was invited to "soften his hard
pride," and to return to the kingdom of the god Bel, the alternative,
war, was chosen. In the year 450, when the Persian fire-worshippers
invited the Armenians to change their faith, the answer again
was war. The reply to the decision of Chalcedon illustrates the
same spirit. Likewise through the centuries of the immediate past
the ever recurring answer to the Turk has been war. Powerless to
assimilate the Armenian people, the Turk has had to annihilate or be
annihilated. The self-sufficiency of the people thus reveals itself
in the will to maintain the distinctive social tradition, regardless
of cost or sacrifice.
The characteristic familism reveals itself not only in the customs of
family life, but also in the very nature of the Armenian. In Russian
Armenia there is a very active propaganda carried on by Russian girls
to secure Armenian husbands because of the domesticity of the latter,
which is in striking contrast to the adventurous unfaithfulness of
the Russian husband, whose house becomes his prison, from which
he therefore flees, leaving his wife and children to shift for
themselves. The discontented Russian may be a more attractive lover
for his "Wanderlust" and restlessness, but he is a less attractive
husband for the same reason. An Armenian husband belongs in his home,
where he lives in the hope that some day he may be the father of
a huge household of married sons and grandsons. A young Armenian I
know spoke to me of his wish that some day his father might collect
the scattered sons and unite them and their families in a single
household. This desire is so general among Armenians as to make it
evident that the family is the all-important social unit. No reputation
is so great as that carried by a good family name, nor is there any
so damning as that which goes with a bad family name. And why is the
young bride kept silent for years if not to ensure the all-essential
family-unity, family-solidarity, and family-continuity,--that is,
continuity of family tradition, manners, and customs? And why is
the "patria-potestas" well-nigh unlimited if not for precisely the
same reason? Nor is the taboo upon the young bride, according to
which she may not speak to any young man not a relative during her
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