Auld lang syne. Second series : $b My Indian friendsMüller, F. Max (Friedrich Max)
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Auld lang syne. Second series : $b My Indian friends
Müller, F. Max (Friedrich Max)
India; Müller, F. Max (Friedrich Max), 1823-1900 -- Friends and associates
have expected from a young and timid Hindu lady who could know little of
the world outside her Zenânah, and had probably never spoken to a man
except her husband and members of her own family. She was married
already, when she conceived her plan of going to America, and such was
her strength of character that she succeeded in persuading her husband
to accompany her in her voyage of discovery, and to support her in her
endeavour to preserve her caste while living abroad. “I will go to
America as a Hindu,” she said, “and come back and live among my people
as a Hindu.” And she carried out her resolve in spite of endless
difficulties. Yes, she had been married in 1874, at the age of nine. We
can hardly believe in such marriages, yet they exist, and in her case
this early, nay premature marriage proved certainly most successful. No
wonder therefore that, when she was asked to speak about child-marriages
before an American audience, she should have stood up for them, even in
the presence of her friend Râmabâi, treating them, of course, as what
they really are, betrothals, but betrothals binding for life.
Accompanied by her husband, Gopalrao Vinayak Joshee, she arrived in the
United States, being really the first Brâhman lady who had ever set foot
in New York. From thence she went to Philadelphia, where her arrival is
described to us by her friend, Dr. Rachel Bodley. “One day in September,
1883,” she writes, “there came to my door a little lady in a blue cotton
saree, accompanied by her faithful friend, Mrs. B. F. Carpenter of New
Jersey, and since that hour, when, speechless for very wonder, I
bestowed a kiss of welcome upon the strangers cheek instead of words, I
have loved the women of India. The little lady was Mrs. Ânandibâi
Joshee, who had come to study medicine in the Medical College of
Pennsylvania.” Dr. Bodley proved a true friend in need to the lonely
stranger. She tells us that “though from the first Ânandibâi had
received a cordial welcome in America, it must have been with some
heart-sinking that she settled down alone in her college rooms,
confronted by the anthracite coal stove, which was the only means of
cooking her food, and which she did not know how to manage. She tried
faithfully to prosecute her studies, and at the same time keep
caste-rules and cook her own food, but the anthracite coal stove in her
room was a constant vexation and likewise a source of danger, and the
solitude of the individual house-keeping was overwhelming. After a trial
of two weeks her health declined to such an alarming extent that I
invited her to pay a short visit to my home, and she never left it again
to dwell elsewhere in Philadelphia during her student-residence. In the
performance of College duties, going in and out, up and down, always in
her measured, quiet, dignified, patient way, she has filled every room
with memories which now hallow the home and must continue to do so
throughout the years to come.” Ânandibâi’s faculties developed rapidly
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