Behind the Veil in Persia and Turkish Arabia: An Account of an Englishwoman's Eight Years' Residence Amongst the Women of the EastHume-Griffith, M. E.
Philosophy
Behind the Veil in Persia and Turkish Arabia: An Account of an Englishwoman's Eight Years' Residence Amongst the Women of the East
Hume-Griffith, M. E.
Arabian Peninsula -- Social life and customs; Iran -- Social life and customs
As soon as she could walk she came to tell me her trouble, and to ask
me what I should advise her to do. I told her that, if I were in her
place, I should leave the man altogether. This, she said, she could
not do, as it would mean separation from her children. Finally, she
concluded that there was nothing else to do but to go back to her
husband and submit to his will. This she did, and I saw her there
before we left; but such a different face greeted me to the sweet
one of old. Misery, discontent, and anger were depicted there instead
of content and happiness. Up to the time of her illness she had been
in the habit of frequently coming to see me: now her husband forbade
her to do so any more. The week before we left, however, she turned
up again with a bad abscess on her leg, for which she gave continual
praise to God, saying repeatedly, "Alhamd'llillah. God sent me this
bad leg in order that I may come to you"--her husband not objecting
to her coming to the hospital to be treated, but only when she came
to the house without any apparent reason.
A Moslem woman has very little hope of gaining Paradise. Old
pictures by Mohammedan artists always represent hell as being full
of women. Their hope of gaining Paradise rests a great deal on the
will of their husbands. Some holy men say, "I don't want my wives
in heaven. I prefer those provided by God for all good Moslems from
amongst the angels." Yet, if you question the women about their hope
for the future life, they all fervently express the belief that,
eventually, they will have a place in Paradise afforded them.
Poor, blind, misguided Moslem women of Mosul and other Mohammedan
lands! How my heart aches for them! Will no one heed the cry of anguish
and despair which goes up from their midst? As we think of their lives
our cry can only be, "How long, O Lord, how long will these things be?"
Women are great believers in the doctrine of Naseeb or fatalism. To
everything that comes to them they bow their heads in submission and
say, "Naseeb" (fate).
This doctrine often leads to great neglect of children and invalids,
the women excusing themselves by saying, "Maktoob" (It is written). It
often rouses our indignation to hear this oft-quoted word misapplied
as an excuse for wrongdoing or selfish desires.
For instance, parents will enter into negotiations for the marriage
of their daughter with a man known to be an evil liver; then,
when the girl is suffering, maybe, for their sins, say piously,
"Naseeb--Min Allah" (from God). "Min Allah" indeed! "Min Shaitan"
(from Satan) would be more correct!
Then, again, it is somewhat annoying to be told it is "the will of God"
that your horse should develop a cough, because the groom neglected
to cover him when standing in the rain; or, when your best china
tea-set is smashed, you would rather not be told it is "Naseeb"!
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