Behind the Veil in Persia and Turkish Arabia: An Account of an Englishwoman's Eight Years' Residence Amongst the Women of the EastHume-Griffith, M. E.
Philosophy
Behind the Veil in Persia and Turkish Arabia: An Account of an Englishwoman's Eight Years' Residence Amongst the Women of the East
Hume-Griffith, M. E.
Arabian Peninsula -- Social life and customs; Iran -- Social life and customs
Of "home life" in Persia there is none; there is no word in their
language for "home," and so it plays no part in their lives. Life in
the home varies very much according to the rank of the husband. The
poorer wives and village women are blessed by being obliged to work,
but the better class have absolutely nothing to do, from morning
till night, but smoke, drink tea, and talk scandal. The poorer wife
is certainly the better off of the two, for she has to rise early in
the morning to get her husband his early cup of tea before he goes
off to work; then she has the house to look after and the children
to think of and sew for; and last, but not least, the evening meal
of pillau or kabob to cook ere her lord and master returns from his
labours; while her less fortunate neighbour has nothing to do but to
talk of the latest scandal of the anderoon, and then to pay a visit
to another anderoon to tell and receive the latest news there.
The anderoon is that part of the house which is given up to the women,
and is as a rule the best part of the house, for there the men of the
house retire when their work is done, to be waited on and fussed over
by the womenfolk.
When a man is well off and has more than one wife, he generally keeps
them in separate compounds; but often two will be living together in
the same anderoon, and as a rule they do not love each other very much.
The great and chief causes of jealousy in the anderoon are the
children, or rather lack of children. For instance, a young bride is
brought to her husband's house, and for a time she is the pet and
favourite of her husband, and all is well; but if as time passes
no child comes to cheer her heart, then the husband soon tires of
his new plaything and looks about for a new and prettier one, till
one sad day the poor young wife hears that her husband is about to
bring home another to share her life and home. We can imagine what
rage and jealousy will burn in her heart, and how she will hate the
new inmate of the anderoon, and especially if after a time her enemy
becomes the mother of a boy. Then her hatred reaches a climax, and
it is by no means uncommon for her to have recourse to the "cup of
coffee" either for herself or her enemy. That "cup of coffee" is a
most useful (?) institution in Persia, as it is often very difficult
to detect the poison hidden therein.
It is impossible for us even to think of the miseries through which
some of these poor women pass; and if we see how unhappiness and
wretchedness is fostered in an anderoon containing two wives, how
much more miserable and awful must be the life when the number of
wives is multiplied by two or even more.
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