Benjamin Franklin, Self-Revealed, Volume 1 (of 2): A Biographical and Critical Study Based Mainly on his own WritingsBruce, Wiliam Cabell
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Benjamin Franklin, Self-Revealed, Volume 1 (of 2): A Biographical and Critical Study Based Mainly on his own Writings
Bruce, Wiliam Cabell
Franklin, Benjamin, 1706-1790
What you mention concerning the love of praise is
indeed very true; it reigns more or less in every
heart; though we are generally hypocrites, in that
respect, and pretend to disregard praise, and our nice,
modest ears are offended, forsooth, with what one of
the ancients calls _the sweetest kind of music_. This
hypocrisy is only a sacrifice to the pride of others,
or to their envy; both which, I think, ought rather to
be mortified. The same sacrifice we make, when we
forbear to _praise ourselves_, which naturally we are
all inclined to; and I suppose it was formerly the
fashion, or Virgil, that courtly writer, would not have
put a speech into the mouth of his hero, which
now-a-days we should esteem so great an indecency;
"Sum pius AEneas ...
... fama super aether a notus."
One of the Romans, I forget who, justified speaking in
his own praise by saying, _Every freeman had a right to
speak what he thought of himself as well as of others_.
That this is a natural inclination appears in that all
children show it, and say freely, _I am a good boy; Am
I not a good girl?_ and the like, till they have been
frequently chid, and told their trumpeter is dead; and
that it is unbecoming to sound their own praise, &c.
But _naturam expellas furca, tamen usque recurret_.
Being forbid to praise themselves, they learn instead
of it to censure others; which is only a roundabout way
of praising themselves; for condemning the conduct of
another, in any particular, amounts to as much as
saying, _I am so honest, or wise, or good, or prudent,
that I could not do or approve of such an action_. This
fondness for ourselves, rather than malevolence to
others, I take to be the general source of censure and
back biting; and I wish men had not been taught to dam
up natural currents, to the overflowing and damage of
their neighbour's grounds.
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