It was a paper in the handwriting of a Christian friend, which was found
in her copy of the "Articles and Covenant" of her church, after her
decease. This lady had been in the habit, as it seemed, of reading over
those articles and the covenant, on the Sabbath when the Lord's Supper
was to be administered; and the religious education of her children,
being identified with her most sacred thoughts and moments, she read
these questions at the same time.
The lady who read them said that it was proposed by some to append them
to the little manual already presented for Maternal Associations.
* * * * *
"QUESTIONS TO BE THOUGHT UPON.
"1. Have I so prayed for my children as that my prayer produced an
effect upon myself?
"2. Have I realized that to train my children for usefulness and heaven
is probably the chief duty God requires of me?
"3. Have I realized that, if I cannot eradicate an evil habit, probably
no one else can or will?
"4. Have I granted to-day, from indulgence, what I denied yesterday from
principle?
"5. Have I yielded to importunity in altering a decision deliberately
made?
"6. Have I punished the beginning of an evil habit?
"7. Have I suffered the indulgence of an evil habit through sloth or
discouragement?
"8. Have calmness and seriousness marked my looks, tones, and voice,
when inflicting punishment?
"9. Was my convenience, or the guilt of the child, the measure of its
punishment?
"10. Has punishment been sufficiently private, and have I tried to
affect the mind more than the body?
"11. Do my children see in me a self-command which is the effect of
principle?
"12. Have I, in my plans, my heart, and conduct, sought first for my
children the kingdom of God?
"13. Have I commended God to my children, and my children to God?
"14. Have I aimed to govern my children on the same principle and in the
same spirit which God adopts in the government of his creatures?
"15. Have I, in pursuance of the above resolution, acted in the spirit
of that prayer in God's word, 'Them that honor me, I will honor, and
they that despise me shall be lightly esteemed'?
"16. Have I aimed to secure the love and obedience of my children?
"17. Have I remembered that it is full time to make a child obey when it
knows enough to disobey?
"18. Do I realize that the fulfilment of covenant promises is dependent
on my fidelity? Gen. 18: 19.
"19. Have these resolutions been undertaken in the strength of Christ,
remembering 'I can do all things through Christ which strengthened me'?
"20. Have I labored to convince my child that its true character is
formed by its thoughts and affections?
"21. Do I daily realize that each of my children is a shapeless piece of
marble, capable, through my instrumentality, of being moulded into an
ornament for the palace of the King of kings?
"22. Do I, by my conversation and actions, teach my children that
character, and not wealth or connexions, constitutes respectability?
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