Between the twilights : $b Being studies of Indian women by one of themselvesSorabji, Cornelia
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Between the twilights : $b Being studies of Indian women by one of themselves
Sorabji, Cornelia
India -- Social conditions; Women -- India
no one to-day can really restrain suttee. One old test was putting
your smallest finger into the fire and burning it to the bone: if you
could stand that, unflinching, you were worthy to be suttee. Another
was stirring boiling hot rice with your bare hand. I know a woman whose
proudest memory is that some Great-Aunt or Grandmother stood the test.
Of course misuse of the practice crept in. Some women became suttee
because it was expected of them. What tragedies there must have been!
How the other women must have whispered: “Will she be suttee? Oh! will
she?” or, “She surely will be suttee!” And in each case it would have
determined the undetermined. Again, one can imagine the woman who
did not love suffering suttee in expiation, or in terror at her own
gladness of release; or she who was not loved enough seeking it in
pride or hunger of heart. Oh! the tragedies in that handful of ashes on
the suttee stone. Then, again, there would be the Priest-made suttees,
an increasing number as the years carried life further and further
from the original ideal.
But, as I said above, the real suttee was never compelled, nor is she
now. Only this morning I have heard of a woman, within a four-mile
radius of where I sit writing, who soaked her _sari_ in oil, and
falling upon her dead husband’s body set fire to herself; and of
another just saved from a like attempt. Who could prevent them? Now and
again, as lately in the Punjab or Gaya, cases are brought to light, and
convictions point anew to the law; but Police administration Reports do
not represent the tale of suttees in any one Province.
The class of woman who for the kingdom of Heaven’s sake became suttee
before the Act of 1829, still is suttee, either actually in the
old-time way, though by stealth and unnerved by the admiration of the
onlooker, or in the life of religion and unselfishness. We have all
known at least one such Saint living between her house of Gods and the
cares of other people, a burden-bearer who bears without railing, nay
often with cheerfulness, and who has learnt to live without any hope,
save for him with whom she was forbidden to die. Perhaps the living
sacrifice began when she was but twelve years of age ... perhaps she
lived to seven times twelve.... “What did you do?” I asked of one such,
“in the long ago when life pulsed in your veins?” She smiled at me
the smile of her who has attained. “There were the children of other
people who needed love; there is always my house of Gods.... I am a
_Swami-bakht_ (worshipper of my husband).”
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