Between the twilights : $b Being studies of Indian women by one of themselvesSorabji, Cornelia
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Between the twilights : $b Being studies of Indian women by one of themselves
Sorabji, Cornelia
India -- Social conditions; Women -- India
But it is never in Bengal that the story is followed by another old
as the Sack of Chittore. The Rajput widow is about to spring into
the flames when she sees the boy who saw her husband die. She pauses
awhile, and “Oh Badal,” says she, “tell me ere I go hence to join my
lord--tell me how he bore himself against his enemy.” And Badal: “He
was the reaper of the harvest of battle. I followed his steps as the
humble gleaner of his sword, on the bed of honour he spread a carpet
of the slain--a barbarian Prince his pillow, he laid him down: and he
sleeps ringed about by his foes.”
Hearing which she of the warrior caste, goes smiling through the fire
to her tryst.
The fact is, you see, the ideals of the women are not the same.
Both have given to the world, do give to the world, new types of
perfection in love; but to one, love means the service of the world,
and compulsion of the highest in her Beloved to that end; to the other
it means just the service of her lord, it means self-abnegation and
worship to the exclusion of all criticism.
She of Rajputana although giving royally, demands something, and gets
it: she of Bengal demands nothing, she is here to give, not to get; and
if by chance she is thrown a crumb, she is grateful to pathos.
The one type, if I may so put it, is masculine, the other the
quintessence of femininity ... and it is a difference easily explained.
It is the outcome of the history of the two peoples. The Fighter
demands that his womenkind should be of the stature of the Mothers
of Fighters. So to the beauty of subjection, she adds the beauty of
self-respect. In the other, self is so submerged that there is no room
even for respect of self. And, the sainthood of the women apart, one
questions the wisdom of the second type, for the man.
The _Khettrya_ Rajputni of to-day though very strictly Purdahnashin is
still _an individual_: still does she claim and keep the spirit which
is hers by inheritance. The festival and practice of the Bracelet has
its place in her life even now, though the fighting days are over ...
still is hers the reverence of the Flower Festival. But the custom of
the Mahommedan has affected her also: she lives much in the Zenana,
attending to her gods, her house, and children.
The _Shudra_, who has no purdah, and the _Veishya_, whose purdah
means two veils and a number of women attendants, may be seen in the
street: and, as we look at her in her pretty red draperies, carrying so
gracefully her pyramid of water-pots, or trudging sturdily through the
burning dust to the shrine beside the Lake--we see in level brow, in
frank open countenance and carriage, the spirit of the free--and we say
to ourselves, “No! the personality of the Rajputni is not dead, it is
only domesticated.”
But we carry our questionings no further: “By God, I am a Rajput and a
King. I do not talk of the life behind the curtain!”
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THE QUEEN WHO STOOD ERECT
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