Between the twilights : $b Being studies of Indian women by one of themselvesSorabji, Cornelia
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Between the twilights : $b Being studies of Indian women by one of themselves
Sorabji, Cornelia
India -- Social conditions; Women -- India
And he?--darling rogue of but a dozen or so bright fortnights of the
moon, would tyrannize in his manhood even as he tyrannized now; nor
would he hear reproach in that household of devoted women. Did not his
Father likewise?--who, dying, confessed to _Nanni-Ma_, that the sins
he had committed would need many sacrifices and much offering of the
sacred cake for expiation. And she, blaming him not, set patiently
about his bidding, sparing nothing--the one note of joy in that chaunt
of sorrow being this: “He came to his Mother, he loved her enough to
come, to trust her;” ... and, as the half-understood regret passed like
a shadow over the dying mind, she used all her art to brush it away.
“Fear not, my Son; was it not written? Is this not fruit of that past
birth of which you have no remembrance. All is illusion even sin; all
is good, yes, even sin could we know it ... and your death-ceremonies
shall be to be envied of men, buying you sinlessness through many
future births. Fear not.... And, when he is of age, the boy, he also
shall perform your ceremony ... a new birth to righteousness. Do not
fear, my Son.”
It is this memory which is in the soul of Big-Mother, as she plays with
her son’s son on the terrace in the mystic hour between the lights.
But the boy will grow, and there will be a bride to be found for him.
What great excitement this means for the Zenana, few know who have
not gone in and out among the women. There is the search among caste
folk near at hand, or at a distance. Often the Priest of the family
goes a tour to consult the horoscope of likely candidates.... There
are tragedies when Priest meets Priest and doctors the horoscope to
fit desire or sloth; but that chance must be faced by all alike.... No
need, at any rate, to fear that marriage will take the boy away, it but
brings one more daughter to Big-Mother ... a shy, small person--among
the orthodox, aged ten or thereabouts, who keeps eyes on floor demurely
the first year of marriage, in the presence of whomsoever; and
always, always runs out of the room, or hides face and head, standing
reverently in the presence of her lord. Even many years of marriage do
not relax this reserve when third persons are by. I have known mothers
of grown sons who will carry one aside to whisper what is necessary
to be said, but which cannot be said direct to their husbands in the
presence of others.... “Let the women be silent.” That a wife may not
take her husband’s name is a very general rule throughout India.
Public-domain text, read in full here on John Shaqi.
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