Between the twilights : $b Being studies of Indian women by one of themselvesSorabji, Cornelia
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Between the twilights : $b Being studies of Indian women by one of themselves
Sorabji, Cornelia
India -- Social conditions; Women -- India
“And the King said: ‘Yea, my Queen, so even shouldst thou, when I have
done thee this honour.’
“But she stood erect, smiling gladly. ‘Nay,’ said she, ‘not so; for
both feet and head are my lord’s. Can I have aught that is mine?’”
XI
PORTRAITS OF SOME INDIAN WOMEN
Take first the Indian wife. Was there ever the world over a like
conception of the married state? Chief priestess of her husband, whom
to serve is her religion and her delight. One with him in the economy
of the household, certainly, but moving in a plane far below him for
all other purposes--religious, mental, social; gentle and adoring,
but incapable of participation in the larger interests of his life,
incapable of participation even in his games.
“We are richer,” “we are poorer”--that the bounds of a joint
intelligence. To please his mother, whose chief handmaiden she is in
things domestic, and to bring him a son--these her two ambitions; but
the latter chiefly, for to the mother of a son will a husband forgive
even wrangles in the house-place.
Oh, the worshipping of Gods, the consultings of oracles, the stealthy
working of charms to this end! And if the Gods prove gracious, proud
indeed is the little lady, a creature of good omen, a being to be
welcomed at feasts, to be invoked by the childless. No longer is she a
failure; even widowhood would leave her with the chastened halo of that
son who is worthy to offer sacrifices.
Such an attitude of mind may seem irrational to the alien, but it
should be remembered that the whole idea of marriage in the East
revolves simply on the conception of Life; a community of interests,
companionship--these never enter into the general calculation. Nor is
this strange when one reflects on how large a place life must fill in
the thoughts of a people believing in re-incarnation. As a life-bringer
alone has a woman her place in the scheme of Hindu philosophy. For life
and religion are inextricable in the loom of Time; and woman never did
have a Vedic value.
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