Biography of Rev. Hosea BallouBallou, Maturin M. (Maturin Murray)
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Biography of Rev. Hosea Ballou
Ballou, Maturin M. (Maturin Murray)
Ballou, Hosea, 1771-1852; Clergy -- United States -- Biography; Universalists -- United States -- Biography
There are few old people, or such as have reached the advanced age of
threescore and ten, who have not stored up in their memories a fund of
stories and personal anecdotes, many, perhaps, of their own individual
experience. These they are in the habit of relating frequently as they
go on their way of life, and often do so over and over again to the same
individuals, through mere forgetfulness. This is perhaps one of the
earliest evidences of mental decay. Although, in the course of his long
and chequered life, Mr. Ballou had experienced many interesting
incidents, and learned many curious anecdotes, yet it was a very rare
thing for him to relate one, unless when, in conversation or argument,
some one peculiarly applicable to the subject in hand, suggested itself
to his mind as illustrative of some feeling or passion of our natural
dispositions. When he did speak, those about him always _listened_. It
was on such occasions, that, like the sage of "Rasselas," he spoke, and
attention watched his lips; he reasoned, and conviction closed his
periods. This was particularly the case in his large family circle,
where his opinion, as we have before observed, was sought and repeated,
on all subjects and on all occasions. While there never was a parent
more truly respected, there never was one more dearly beloved. This
could not be brought about by an iron rule, and a stern, inflexible
character. No. It was accomplished on his part by the exercise, in his
domestic relations, of that holy fatherly love which formed the basis of
his creed, and which he worshipped in his God.
For a number of years Mr. Ballou was in the habit of carrying a
snuff-box in his pocket, and of using the article as freely as is
generally the case with those who carry it about them. We all know,
doubtless, how very easy a matter it is to contract a habit, and more
particularly is this the case in advanced years. But if it is difficult
for young people to abandon any bad habit, when the practice has once
been fairly contracted,--if it is hard for them to conquer a pleasant
but baleful appetite, with the many channels of amusement, occupation,
and substitutes that youth and physical vigor present,--how much more
difficult must it be for those who are aged and infirm, and who are
thrown so much upon their own resources for amusement, and the means of
agreeably passing their leisure moments. After having made habitual use
of snuff for several years, Mr. Ballou found that it cloyed the nasal
organs or passage, and thus slightly affected his voice as to
distinctness in public speaking. Perceiving this, he laid by the article
at once, without a murmur, and did not use it at all for three years,
and never again habitually. This instance of resolution simply serves to
show the natural firmness of his character, and the complete
self-control which he exercised over himself.
There is still another illustration of this spirit, which we will give
here.
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