Broken Homes: A Study of Family Desertion and its Social TreatmentColcord, Joanna C. (Joanna Carver)
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Broken Homes: A Study of Family Desertion and its Social Treatment
Colcord, Joanna C. (Joanna Carver)
Desertion and non-support
His Scotch ancestry, a good wife, luck, and a friend with insight
and skill, pulled Aleck Gray out of that bottomless pit, the
gutter. Aleck had been a bookkeeper; but he didn't get on well with
his employers, lost his job, got to drinking, and went so far
downhill that his wife had to take their two children and go home to
her people several hundred miles away. Aleck finally drifted into a
bureau for homeless men, where the agent became interested in him
and worked with him for six months, getting him job after job, which
he always lost through drink or temper. He seemed incapable of
taking directions or working with other people. In all that time the
agent felt that he was getting no nearer the root of Aleck's
trouble, though he came back after each dismissal and doggedly took
whatever was offered. Finally, the agent's patience wore thin, and
when Aleck had been more than usually dour and aggravating it went
entirely to pieces. Aleck listened to his outburst apparently
unmoved; then said, "Very well, if you want to know what would make
me stop drinking, I'll tell you. If I could see any ray of hope that
I was on the way to getting my home and family back, I'd stop and
stop quick." On the agent's desk there happened to be a letter from
a friend who wanted a tenant farmer. He thrust it into Aleck's hand
saying, "There's your chance if you mean what you say." The man's
reply was to ask when he could get a train. At the end of several
weeks Aleck wrote that he had not drunk a drop and was making good,
which was enthusiastically confirmed by his employer. He begged the
agent to intercede with his wife, and a letter went to her which
brought the telegraphic reply, "Starting tomorrow."
How they got through the first winter the agent never knew exactly.
But they pulled through and the next year was easy, as country-born
Aleck's skill came back. Six years later, during which time the
agent heard from them once or twice a year, Aleck was still keeping
straight, the children were doing well in school, and the family,
prosperous and happy, had bought a farm of their own in another
state.
FOOTNOTES:
[40] The deserter who does not fail to support is usually safe from
punishment no matter how aggravated his offense. A man living with his
wife and five-year-old boy in an eastern city eloped with another woman
to a city in the Middle West. The couple kidnapped the boy and took him
with them; and the distracted woman, bereft of both her husband and
child, had no recourse in any court, since the father was continuing to
provide for his son.
[41] Proceedings of the New York State Conference of Charities and
Correction, 1910, p. 76.
[42] Loane, M.: The Queen's Poor, p. 102. London, Edward Arnold, 1905.
[43] Solenberger, Alice Willard: One Thousand Homeless Men, p. 22. New
York, Russell Sage Foundation, 1911.
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