6. Now, after dining and supping repeatedly with garrulous old Gaius,
and with the all-but-silent Mr. Mnason, I have come home ruminating again
and again on this--that a good host, the best host, lets his guests talk
while he attends to the table. If the truth may even be whispered to
one's-self about a table that one has just left, Gaius did his best to
spoil his good supper by his own over-garrulity. It was good talk that
he entertained his waiting guests with, but we may have too much of a
good thing. His oration in praise of women was an excellent oration, had
it been delivered in another house than his own; and, say, when he was
asked to give the health of Christiana, or of Matthew the bridegroom and
Mercy the bride, it would then have been perfect; but not in his own
house, and not when his guests were waiting for their supper. On the
other hand, you should have seen that perfect gentleman, Mr. Mnason. For
that true old Christian and old English gentleman never once opened his
mouth after he had set his guests a-talking. He was too busy watching
when any man's dish was again empty. He was too much delighted to see
that every one of his guests was having his punctual share of the supper,
and at the same time his full share of the talk. Mr. Fearing's small
voice was far more pleasant to Mr. Mnason than his own voice was in his
own best story. As I opened my own door the other night after supping
with Mr. and Miss Mnason, I said to myself--One thing I have again seen
and learned to-night, and that is, that a host, and still more a hostess,
should talk less at their own table than their most silent, most bashful,
and most backward guest. "Make this an ordinance for thee," said Rabban
Shammai to his sons in the law; "receive all thy guests with a pleasant
expression of countenance, and then say little and do much."
CHRISTIAN
"The disciples were called Christians first at Antioch."--_Luke_.
"Almost thou persuadest me to be a Christian."--_King Agrippa_.
"Let every one that nameth the name of Christ depart from
iniquity."--_Paul_.
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