Byron, George Gordon Byron, Baron, 1788-1824 -- Last years; Poets, English -- 19th century -- Biography
'With respect to Lady Byron, her image appeared to be rooted in his
mind. She had wounded Lord Byron's pride by having refused his first
offer of marriage; by having separated herself from him whom others
assiduously courted; and by having resisted all the efforts of his
genius to compel her again to yield to his dominion. Had Lady Byron
been submissive, could she have stooped to become a caressing slave,
like other ingenious slaves, she might have governed her lord and
master. But no, she had a mind too great, and was too much of an
Englishwoman to bow so low. These contrarieties set Lord Byron's heart
on fire, roused all his passions, gave birth, no doubt, to many of his
sublimest thoughts, and impelled him impetuously forward in his zigzag
career. When angry or humorous, she became the subject of his wild
sport; at other times she seemed, though he loved her not, to be the
mistress of his feelings, and one whom he in vain attempted to cast
from his thoughts. Thus, in a frolicsome tone, I have heard him sketch
characters, and, speaking of a certain acquaintance, say, "With the
exception of Southey and Lady Byron, there is no one I hate so much."
This was a noisy shot--a sort of a _feu de joie_, that inflicted no
wound, and left no scar behind. Lord Byron was in reality a
good-natured man, and it was a violence to his nature, which he seldom
practised, either to conceal what he thought or to harbour revenge. In
one conversation which I had with Lord Byron, he dwelt much upon the
acquirements and virtues of Lady Byron, and even said she had
committed no fault but that of having married him. The truth is, that
he was not formed for marriage. His riotous genius could not bear
restraint. No woman could have lived with him but one devoid of, or of
subdued, feelings--an Asiatic slave. Lord Byron, it is well known, was
passionately fond of his child; of this he gave me the following
proof. He showed me a miniature of Ada, as also a clever description
of her character, drawn by her mother, and forwarded to him by the
person he most esteemed, his amiable sister. After I had examined the
letter, while reflecting on its contents, I gazed intently on the
picture; Lord Byron, observing me in deep meditation, impatiently
said, "Well, well, what do you think of Ada?" I replied, "If these are
true representations of Ada, and are not drawn to flatter your vanity,
you have engrafted on her your virtues and your failings. She is in
mind and feature the very image of her father." Never did I see man
feel more pleasure than Lord Byron felt at this remark; his eyes
lightened with ecstasy.
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