Cairo to Kisumu : $b Egypt—The Sudan—Kenya ColonyCarpenter, Frank G. (Frank George)
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Cairo to Kisumu : $b Egypt—The Sudan—Kenya Colony
Carpenter, Frank G. (Frank George)
Egypt -- Description and travel; Kenya -- Description and travel; Sudan -- Description and travel
I am surprised at the great number of married women. One knows their
status from those sacred tails. The Kavirondo girls marry very early.
They are often betrothed at the age of six years; but in such case the
girl stays with her parents for five or six years afterward. The parents
sell their girls for a price, a good wife being purchasable for forty
hoes, twenty goats, and a cow. In the case of an early betrothal the
suitor pays down part of the fixed sum and the rest in installments until
all is paid. If the father refuses to give up the girl when the time
comes for marriage, the payments having been made, the suitor organizes
a band of his friends, captures her, and carries her home. A man usually
takes his wife from a different village from that in which he lives. When
he comes with his band to the bride’s village, her gentlemen friends
often resist the invasion and fight the suitor’s party with sticks. At
such times the girl screams, but I understand that she usually allows
herself to be captured.
[Illustration: The witch doctor’s life is safe only so long as the people
believe he has power to break up spells cast upon men or cattle by evil
spirits. Most of them come to their end by violence.]
[Illustration: The British provide for the men who uphold the banner of
empire in East Africa homes that are not only clean but attractive. They
have succeeded far beyond any other nationality as administrators over
the millions of primitive blacks.]
[Illustration: The Masai, long noted as warriors and cattlemen, live in
huts made of branches woven together and plastered with mud, so that
their homes look from a distance like so many bake-ovens.]
I hear that old maids are not popular and that the average Kavirondo girl
is just as anxious to be married as are our maidens at home. Indeed, she
is usually so uneasy that, if she does not get a bid in the ordinary way,
she will pick out a man and arrange to have herself offered to him at
a reduced rate. There are plenty of plump Kavirondo maidens now on the
bargain counter.
Another queer marriage custom here affects a man’s sister-in-law. The
man who gets the eldest girl in a family is supposed to have the refusal
of all the younger ones as they come to marriageable age. The polygamous
Kavirondo may thus have several sisters among his wives.
One would suppose that these girls might be rather loose in their morals.
On the contrary, I am told that they rank much better in this regard than
the maidens of Uganda in the province adjoining, nearly all of whom wear
clothing. Virtue stands high here, and infractions of its laws are always
punished, though less severely now than in the past. Divorces are not
common, but a man can get rid of his wives if he will. One curious custom
decrees that if a husband and wife have a quarrel, and she leaves the hut
and he shuts the door after her, that action alone is equivalent to a
divorce and the woman goes back to her own people at once.
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