Castes and Tribes of Southern India. Vol. 3 of 7Thurston, Edgar
History
Castes and Tribes of Southern India. Vol. 3 of 7
Thurston, Edgar
Caste -- India, South; Ethnology -- India, South; India, South -- Social life and customs; Tribes -- India, South
Both adult and infant marriage are practiced. Those who had married
'infants,' on being questioned, stated that this is the safest course,
as grown-up brides sometimes run away to their parents' house, whereas
younger girls get accustomed to their husbands' home. On a fixed day,
within a month of the marriage ceremony, four Kanikars, accompanied
by a boy carrying betel leaves and areca nuts, go to the home of the
future bride, and present them to the families of the settlement. On
the wedding morning, all assemble at a pandal (booth), and the
bridegroom distributes pan-supari (betel leaf and areca nuts). His
sister then brings forward the bride, and the bridegroom presents
her with a cloth, which she puts on. Bride, bridegroom, and a young
boy, then stand on a mat beneath the pandal, and the bridegroom ties
the minnu (marriage badge) round the neck of the bride if she is an
infant. If she is an adult, he places the minnu in front of her neck,
on which it is tied by his sister. A plantain leaf is then placed
in front of the bridal couple, and curry and rice served thereon by
their mothers. The two women then take hold of the bride's head, and
press it seven times towards her husband's shoulders. This ceremony
concluded, the young boy takes a small quantity of the curry and
rice, and puts it in the mouth of the bridegroom seven times. The
bridegroom's younger brother then gives a morsel to the bride. The
ceremonial terminates with a feast. The dowry includes billhooks,
brass vessels, choppers, grain, and pulses. The headman, according to
Mateer, offers some advice to the husband concerning the management of
his wife. The heads of his discourse are arranged under the following
heads:--teaching by words, pinching, and blows, and casting the woman
away at last, if she is not obedient. In the remarriage of widows,
the bridegroom simply gives the woman a pair of cloths, and, with
the consent of the male members of her family, takes her to his home.
During the seventh month of pregnancy, a woman has to perform a
ceremony called vaguthu pongal. Seven pots are placed on seven hearths,
and, when the rice placed therein has boiled, the woman salutes it,
and all present partake thereof. According to Mateer "the ceremony
practised on the occasion of pregnancy is called vayaru pongal,
when boiled rice is offered to the sun. First they mould an image of
Ganesha, and, setting it in a suitable place, boil the rice. To this
they add for an offering aval or flattened rice, parched rice, cakes,
plantain fruits, young cocoanuts, and tender leaves of the same palm,
with the flowers of the areca palm. The headman then commences dancing,
and repeating mantrams. He waves the offerings to the sun. On first
giving rice to a child, a feast is held, and an offering presented
to the jungle demons."
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