The curious tangle which such a position begets when brought into
contact with the Christian idea is exemplified in this story. A rich
Chinaman had three wives. By his lawful wife he had nine children; by
the other two he had none; but his second wife was a woman of very
strong character, and she was brought in touch with the missionaries by
the Chinese wife of a European. She apparently ruled the house with a
kindly rule to which all the others {125} bowed. She did everything in
an energetic and vigorous way, and she studied Christianity till she
was convinced of its truth, and then she demanded baptism. There was a
great difficulty; she must leave her husband before she could be
baptized. After considerable delay she accepted the condition, but
resistance came, not alone from the man, but from the other two wives.
They could not possibly get on without her; they were like sisters; and
she must be allowed to return to the house. She refused, though the
pressure was extreme. The man said that he had promised his ancestors
that none of his children should be Christians, and that his own mother
would not forgive him; but the woman held firm, and at last she was
baptized. Her face was beautiful to behold while she was accepting
Christianity and renouncing all that made life sweet to her. The
husband was so moved by her fortitude that he signed a paper promising
not to molest her, and yet to support her apart, so that she should not
be in any need.
At the Shanghai Conference there were, curious to relate, many women
who wished the Christian body to recognise existing polygamy among the
Chinese. A sentence of the resolution proposed was that "secondary
wives may be admitted to membership if obviously true Christians." Mr.
Arnold Foster resisted the inclusion of these words, and they were
lost. No doubt the Conference was wise in taking this line. It is
most essential to maintain the purity {126} of the home life, and the
difficulty that arises from secondary wives desiring to join the
Christian Church can never be a very important one, as the vast
majority of Chinese are monogamous.
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