_Life of F. W. Crossley_, RENDEL HARRIS. "Do not discharge in haste the arrow which can never return: it is easy to destroy happiness; most difficult to restore it." HERDER. "Discord harder is to end than to begin." SPENSER. "Think of this doctrine--that reasoning beings were created for one another's sake; that to be patient is a branch of justice, and that men sin without intending it." MARCUS AURELIUS. Friendship AUGUST 20 "We should learn from Jesus that the essential quality in the heart of friendship is not the desire to have friends, but the desire to be a friend; not to get good and help from others, but to impart blessing to others. Many of the sighings for friendship which we have are merely selfish longings,--a desire for happiness, for pleasure, for the gratification of the heart, which friends would bring. If the desire were to be a friend, to do others good, to serve and to give help, it would be a far more Christlike longing, and would transform the life and character." _Personal Friendships of Jesus_, J. R. MILLER. "To love is better, nobler, more elevating, and more sure, than to be loved. To love is to have found that which lifts us above ourselves; which makes us capable of sacrifice; which unseals the forces of another world. He who is loved has gained the highest tribute of earth; he who loves has entered into the spirit of heaven. The love which comes to us must always be alloyed with the sad sense of our own unworthiness. The love which goes out from us is kept bright by the ideal to which it is directed." Bishop WESTCOTT. Friendship AUGUST 21 "Friendships that have been renewed require more care than those that have never been broken off." LA ROCHEFOUCAULD. "Broken friendship may be soldered, but never made sound." Spanish Proverb.