Children -- United States; United States -- Social life and customs -- To 1775
Nor was his knowledge of his own land extended. There was nothing to
interest him in the newsletter, even if he read it. He cared nothing
for the other colonies, he knew little of other towns. If he lived
in a seaport, he doubtless heard from the sailors on the wharves
tales of adventure and romantic interest, and he heard from his
elders details of trade, both of foreign and native ports.
The boy, therefore, grew up with his life revolving in a small
circle; the girl's was still smaller. It had its advantages and its
serious disadvantages. It developed an extraordinarily noble and
pure type of neighborliness, but it did not foster a general broad
love of humanity. Perhaps those conditions developed types which
were fitted to receive and absorb gradually the more extended views
of life which came through the wider extent of vision, which has
been brought to us by newspapers, by steam, and by electricity. At
any rate children were serenely content, for they were unconscious.
[Illustration: The Pepperell Children]
Among early printed English books are many containing rules of
courtesy and behavior. Many of these and manuscripts on kindred
topics were carefully reprinted in 1868 by the _Early English_
_Text Society_ of Great Britain. Among these are: _The Babees Book_;
_The Lytill Children's Lytil Boke_; _The Boke of Nurture, 1577_; _The
Boke of Curtasye, 1460_; _The Schole of Vertue, 1557_. From those days
till the present, similar books have been written and printed, and
form a history of domestic manners.
It certainly conveys an idea of the demeanor of children of colonial
days to read what was enjoined upon them in a little book of
etiquette which was apparently widely circulated, and doubtless
carefully read. Instructions as to behavior at the table run thus:--
"Never sit down at the table till asked, and after the blessing.
Ask for nothing; tarry till it be offered thee. Speak not. Bite
not thy bread but break it. Take salt only with a clean knife.
Dip not the meat in the same. Hold not thy knife upright but
sloping, and lay it down at right hand of plate with blade on
plate. Look not earnestly at any other that is eating. When
moderately satisfied leave the table. Sing not, hum not, wriggle
not. Spit no where in the room but in the corner, and--"
But I will pursue the quotation no further, nor discover other
eighteenth-century pronenesses painfully revealed in lurid light in
other detailed "Don'ts."
It is evident that the ancient child was prone to eat as did Dr.
Samuel Johnson, hotly, avidly, with strange loud eager champings;
he was enjoined to more moderation:--
"Eat not too fast nor with Greedy Behavior. Eat not vastly but
moderately. Make not a noise with thy Tongue, Mouth, Lips, or
Breath in Thy Eating and Drinking. Smell not of thy Meat; nor
put it to Thy Nose; turn it not the other side upward on Thy
Plate."
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