Children -- United States; United States -- Social life and customs -- To 1775
"A boy was early taught a profound respect for his parents,
teachers, and guardians, and implicit prompt obedience. If
he undertook to rebel his will was broken by persistent and
adequate punishment. He was taught that it was a sin to find
fault with his meals, his apparel, his tasks or his lot in life.
Courtesy was enjoined as a duty. He must be silent among his
superiors. If addressed by older persons he must respond with
a bow. He was to bow as he entered and left the school, and
to every man and woman, old or young, rich or poor, black or
white, whom he met on the road. Special punishment was visited
on him if he failed to show respect for the aged, the poor, the
colored, or to any persons whatever whom God had visited with
infirmities."
All children in godly households were taught personal consideration
of the old and afflicted, a consideration which lasted till our
present days of organized charities. As a lesson of patience and
kindness, read Mrs. Silsbee's account of the blind piano tuner in
Salem. He was employed in many households and ever treated with
marked attention. His tuning instrument had to be placed for him on
each piano-screw by some member of the family. He was paid, given
cake and wine, then humored by being given a tangled skein of silk
to unravel and thus show his dexterity, and finally led tenderly
home.
Sir Francis Doyle says, "It is the intention of the Almighty that
there should exist for a certain time between childhood and manhood,
the natural production known as a boy." This natural production
existed two centuries ago as well as to-day. Though children were
certainly subdued and silent in the presence of older folk, still
they were boys and girls, not machine-like models of perfection. We
know of their turbulence in church; and boys in colonial days robbed
orchards, and played ball in the streets, and tore down gates, and
frightened horses, and threw stones with as much vim and violence
as if they had been born in the nineteenth century. Mather, in his
_Vindication of New England_, referring to the charge of injuring
King's Chapel, shows us Boston schoolboys in much the same mischief
that schoolboys have been in since:--
"All the mischief done is the breaking of a few Quarels of Glass
by idle Boys, who if discover'd had been chastis'd by their
own Parents. They have built their Chapel in a Publick burying
place, next adjoining a great Free School, where the Boyes
(having gotten to play) may, some by Accident, some in Frolick,
and some perhaps in Revenge for disturbing their Relatives'
Graves by the Foundation of that Building, have broken a few
Quarels of the Windows."
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