Children -- United States; United States -- Social life and customs -- To 1775
"Now for the other for whom you writt. I confesse I cannot
freelie yeald thereunto for the present, for these grounds.
ffirst: The girle desires not to mary as yet. 2ndlee: Shee
confesseth (which is the truth) hereselfe to be altogether yett
vnfitt for such a condition, shee beinge a verie girl and but
15 yeares of age. 3rdlie: Where the man was moved to her shee
said shee could not like him. 4thlie: You know it would be of
ill reporte that a girl because shee hath some estate should
bee disposed of soe young, espetialie not having any parents to
choose for her. ffifthlie: I have some good hopes of the child's
coming on to the best thinges. And on the other side I fear--I
will say no more. Other things I shall tell you when we meet.
If this will not satisfy some, let the Court take her from mee
and place with any other to dispose of her. I shall be content.
Which I heare was plotted to accomplish this end; but I will
further enquire about it, and you shall know if it be true, ffor
I know there are many passages about this busniss which when you
heare of you will not like."
It is pleasant to record that all this match-making and machination
came to naught. It would not have been strange if Governor Winthrop
had deemed this girl old enough to be married. He had been but
seventeen years old himself when he was married, but he was, so he
writes, "a man in stature and understanding." He evidently was of
the opinion that a child of fourteen or fifteen was of mature years.
When his son John was but fourteen the governor made a will making
the boy the executor of it.
These child-marriages were not abolished in America because maturity
or majority was established at a greater age; for up to the
Revolution boys reached man's estate at sixteen years of age, became
tax-payers, and served in the militia. Early unions were controlled
by restrictive laws, such as the one enacted in Massachusetts in
1646, that no female orphan during her minority should be given in
marriage by any one except with the approbation of the majority of
the selectmen of the town in which she resided. Another privilege
of the girl orphan was that at fourteen she could choose her own
guardian. Thus were children protected in the new world, and their
rights conserved.
CHAPTER X
OLDTIME DISCIPLINE
_My child and scholar take good heed
unto the words that here are set,
And see thou do accordingly
or else be sure thou shalt be beat._
--_The English Schoolmaster. Edward Coote, 1680._
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