Children's Ways: Being selections from the author's "Studies of childhood," with some additional matterSully, James
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Children's Ways: Being selections from the author's "Studies of childhood," with some additional matter
Sully, James
Child development; Child psychology
Not all children, by any means, elaborate even this crude sort of
theory. The less speculative and more practical kind of child accepts
what he is told and proceeds to apply it, sometimes oddly enough. Thus
the _Lancet_ recently contained an amusing letter from some children,
the eldest of whom was seven, addressed to a doctor asking for a baby
for their mother's next birthday. It was to be "fat and bonny, with blue
eyes and fair hair"--a perfect doll in fact; and a characteristic
postscript asked: "Which would be the cheaper--a boy or a girl?"
These ideas of children about babies partly communicated by others,
partly thought out for themselves, are naturally enough made to account
for the beginnings of animal life. This is illustrated in the
supposition of the little boy, already quoted, who thought that God
helps pussy to have "'ickle kitties," seeing that she hasn't any kitties
in eggs given her to sit upon.
CHAPTER VI.
FIRST THOUGHTS: (_b_) SELF AND OTHER MYSTERIES.
We may now pass to some of the characteristic modes of child-thought
about that standing mystery, the self. As our discussion of the child's
ideas of origin, growth and final shrinkage suggests, a good deal of his
most earnest thinking is devoted to problems relating to himself.
_The Visible Self._
The date of the first thought about self, of the first dim stage of
self-awareness, probably varies considerably in the case of different
children according to the rapidity of the mental development and to the
character of the surrounding circumstances. The little girl, who was
afterwards to be known as George Sand, may be supposed to have had an
exceptional development; and the blow which she received as a baby in
arms, and to which she ascribes the first dawn of self-consciousness,
was, of course, exceptional too. There are probably many robust and
unreflective children, knowing little of life's misery, who get on
extremely well without any consciousness of self.
The earliest idea of children about "myself" is a mental picture of the
body. They come to learn that their body is different from other objects
of sense by a number of experiences, such as grasping the foot,
striking the head, receiving soft caresses, kisses, and so forth. Such
experiences may suffice to develop even during the first year the idea
that their body is "me" in the sense that it is the living seat of pain
and pleasure.
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