Unlike the women of other races of the East, the Chinese woman has always
shown a marked strength of character, and evidently, as Mrs. Poyser so
truly remarked, “God made ’em to match the men.” That the men did not
approve of this is equally plain, for, looking back some thousands of
years, we find the great Confucius teaching the best way of counteracting
this inborn self-will and strength of character.
“It is a law of nature,” he says, “that woman should be kept under the
control of man and not allowed any will of her own. In the other world
the condition of affairs is exactly the same, for the same laws govern
there as here.”
“Women are as different from men as earth is from heaven.... Women are
indeed human beings, but they are of a lower state than men, and can
never attain to a full equality with them. The aim of female education
therefore is perfect submission, not cultivation and development of the
mind.”
Not only Confucius spoke thus strongly about the education of women, but
all through the centuries Chinese writers of note refer to the subject
of woman’s duty and education, and her attitude towards man. This is
graphically set out in the important work, _The Ritual of Chau_—What a
revelation of Chinese home life it is!
“In conversation a woman should not be forward and garrulous, but observe
strictly what is correct, whether in suggesting advice to her husband,
in remonstrating with him, in teaching her children, in maintaining
etiquette, in humbly imparting her experience and in averting misfortune.
The deportment of females should be strictly grave and sober, and yet
adapted to the occasion; whether in waiting on her parents, receiving
or reverencing her husband, rising up or sitting down, in times of
mourning or fleeing in war, she should be perfectly decorous. Rearing
the silkworm and working cloth are the most important of the employments
of a female; preparing and serving up the food for her husband and
setting in order the sacrifices follow next, each of which must be
attended to. After them _study_ and _learning_ can fill up the time.”
This last detail shows clearly that it was no unusual thing for the women
to have a knowledge of literature, and there is no mean list of women
writers in the field of belles-lettres, while one even wrote on the
sacrosanct subject of dynastic history in the fifth century. The first
treatise on the education of women was written by a Chinese woman some
eighteen centuries ago, and it is rather interesting to see what her
ideal for womanhood was, and to compare it with the present-day ideal.
“The virtue of a female does not consist altogether in extraordinary
abilities or intelligence, but in being modestly grave and inviolably
chaste, observing the requirements of virtuous widowhood, and in being
tidy in her person and everything about her; in whatever she does to be
unassuming, and whenever she moves or sits to be decorous. This is female
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