Civilization in the United States: An inquiry by thirty Americans
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Civilization in the United States: An inquiry by thirty Americans
United States -- Civilization
Facts which are not held together through theory call for labels.
People who do not think in terms of relations are likely to be
insistent upon names. Labels or names for sex disposition or acts
are, as a matter of fact, very definite in the American vernacular.
“Engaged,” “attentive,” “devoted,” “a married man,” “a man of family,”
“a grass widow,” “a _good_ woman,” “a _bad_ woman”--there is no end
to such tags. Again, intimacy between a man and a woman is referred
definitely to the act of consummation, a sex relation is strictly
classified according to whether or not it is physically consummated.
In this attitude towards sex boundaries or captions may lie the
explanation, incidentally, of what is a constant puzzle to the European
visitor--the freedom of social intercourse allowed to the youth of
opposite sexes. Since consummation only constitutes sexual intimacy in
American opinion, and since consummation, it is assumed, is utterly
out of the question, why raise barriers between boys and girls? The
assumption that consummation is out of the question is, by and large,
correct, which is still another puzzle. To this some clue may be found,
I think, in our concluding discussion.
Fondness for captions and for the sort of classification that is so
likely to paralyze perception of the finer distinctions and to arrest
thought, are natural enough in a child, learning language and so
pressed upon by the multiplicity of phenomena that in self-protection
he must make rough classifications and remain unaware of much. The
old who are dying to life are also exclusive, and they, too, cling
to formulas. Is American culture in the matter of sex childish and
immature, as Americans imply when they refer to their “young country,”
or is the culture representative of the aged; are Americans born old,
as now and again a European critic asserts?
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