Civilization in the United States: An inquiry by thirty Americans
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Civilization in the United States: An inquiry by thirty Americans
United States -- Civilization
Turning from the historical back to the psychological point of view--in
one of those circles of cause and effect that are composed now of
cultural inheritance or tradition, now of psychological trend or
disposition--the American case of sex, whether a case of adolescence or
of senescence, may be said to present symptoms of arrested development.
Together with the non-realism of childish or senile formula, there is
here the kind of emotionalism which checks emotional vitality and which
is fed upon the sense of crisis; we may call it crisis-emotion. Life at
large, the sex life in particular, is presented as a series of crises
preceded and followed by a static condition, and in these conventional
times of crisis only, the times when the labels are being attached,
are the emotions aroused. In the intervals, in the stretches between
betrothal, marriage, birth, christening, or divorce, there is little or
no sense of change--none of the emotions that correspond to changing
relations and are expressions of personal adjustment. The emotions of
crisis are statutory, pre-determined, conventionalized; neither for
oneself nor for others do they make any demands upon imagination, or
insight, or spiritual concern.
Here in this psychology of crisis is the clue--before mentioned--to
an understanding of the freedom allowed our youth, of “bundling,”
as the Colonials termed it, or, in current phrase, “petting.” In
general, “keeping company” is accounted one kind of a relationship,
marriage, another--one characterized by courtship without consummation,
the other by consummation without courtship. Between the two kinds
of relationship there is no transition, it is assumed, except by
convention or ritual. So inrooted is this social attitude that the
young cannot escape adopting it, at least the very young to whom, at
any rate, uncritical conservatism seems to be natural. Indeed the taboo
on unritualized consummation partakes enough of the absolutism of the
taboo, shall we say, on incest, to preclude any risk of individual
youthful experimentation or venture across the boundary lines set by
the Elders.
Given these boundary lines, given a psychology of crisis, all too
readily the sex relations, in marriage or out, become stale, flat,
colourless, or of the nature of debauch, which is only another
aspect of crisis-psychology. Sex relations perforce become limited
to two conventions, marriage and prostitution. Prostitute or wife,
the conjugal or the disorderly house, these are the alternatives. In
formulaic crisis-psychology there may be no other station of emotional
experiment or range of emotional expression.
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