Christian fiction; Conduct of life -- Fiction; Didactic fiction; Mate selection -- Fiction
As we walked into the house, Mr. Stanley said, "Whenever I read to my
children a light and gay composition, which I often do, I generally take
care it shall be the work of some valuable author, to whose writings
this shall be a pleasant and tempting prelude. What child of spirit who
hears John Gilpin, will not long to be thought old and wise enough to
read the 'Task?' The remembrance of the infant rapture will give a
predilection for the poet. Desiring to keep their standard high, I
accustom them to none but good writers, in every sense of the word; by
this means they will be less likely to stoop to ordinary ones when they
shall hereafter come to choose for themselves."
Lady Belfield regretted to me that she had not brought some of her
children to the Grove. "To confess a disgraceful truth," said she, "I
was afraid they would have been moped to death; and to confess another
truth still more disgraceful to my own authority, my indulgence has been
so injudicious, and I have maintained so little control, that I durst
not bring some of them, for fear of putting the rest out of humor; I am
now in a school where I trust I may learn to acquire firmness, without
any diminution of fondness."
CHAPTER XXVI.
The next morning Mr. Stanley proposed that we should pay a visit to some
of his neighbors. He and Sir John Belfield rode on horseback, and I had
the honor of attending the ladies in the sociable. Lady Belfield, who
was now become desirous of improving her own too relaxed domestic system
by the experience of Mrs. Stanley, told her how much she admired the
cheerful obedience of her children. She said, "she did not so much
wonder to see them so good, but she owned she was surprised to see them
so happy."
"I know not," replied Mrs. Stanley, "whether the increased
insubordination of children is owing to the new school of philosophy and
politics, but it seems to me to make part of the system. When I go
sometimes to stay with a friend in town to do business, she is always
making apologies that she can not go out with me--'her daughters want
the coach.' If I ask leave to see the friends who call on me in such a
room--'her daughters have company there, or they want the room for their
music, or it is preparing for the children's ball in the evening.' If a
messenger is required--'her daughters want the footman.' There certainly
prevails a spirit of independence, a revolutionary spirit, a separation
from the parent state. IT IS THE CHILDREN'S WORLD."
"You remind me, madam," said I, "of an old courtier, who being asked by
Louis XV., which age he preferred, his own or the present, replied, 'I
passed my youth in respecting old age, and I find I must now pass my old
age in respecting children.'"
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