Christian fiction; Conduct of life -- Fiction; Didactic fiction; Mate selection -- Fiction
"I assure you," said Mrs. Stanley, "you over-rate her. Lucilla is no
prodigy dropped down from the clouds. Ten thousand other young women,
with natural good sense, and good temper, might, with the same
education, the same neglect of what is useless, and the same attention
to what is necessary, acquire the same habits and the same principles.
Her being no prodigy, however, perhaps makes her example, as far as it
goes, more important. She may be more useful, because she carries not
that discouraging superiority, which others might be deterred from
imitating, through hopelessness to reach. If she is not a miracle whom
others might despair to emulate, she is a Christian whom every girl of a
fair understanding and good temper may equal, and whom, I hope and
believe, many girls excel."
I asked Mrs. Stanley's permission to attend the young ladies in one of
their benevolent rounds. "When I have leisure to be one of the party,"
replied she, smiling, "you shall accompany us. I am afraid to trust your
warm feelings. Your good-nature would perhaps lead you to commend as a
merit, what in fact deserves no praise at all, the duly being so
obvious, and so indispensable. I have often heard it regretted that
ladies have no stated employment, no profession. It is a mistake.
_Charity is the calling of a lady; the care of the poor is her
profession._ Men have little time or taste for details. Women of fortune
have abundant leisure, which can in no way be so properly or so
pleasantly filled up, as in making themselves intimately acquainted with
the worth and the wants of all within their reach. With their wants,
because it is their bounden duty to administer to them; with their
worth, because without this knowledge, they can not administer prudently
and appropriately."
I expressed to Mrs. Stanley the delight with which I had heard of the
admirable regulations of her family, in the management of the poor, and
how much their power of doing good was said to be enlarged by the
judgment and discrimination with which it was done.
"We are far from thinking," replied she, "that our charity should be
limited to our own immediate neighborhood. We are of opinion, that it
should not be left undone anywhere, but that _there_ it should be done
indispensably. We consider our own parish as our more appropriate field
of action, where providence, by 'fixing the bounds of our habitation,'
seems to have made us peculiarly responsible for the comfort of those
whom he has doubtless placed around us for that purpose. It is thus that
the Almighty vindicates his justice, or rather calls on us to vindicate
it. It is thus he explains why he admits natural evil into the world, by
making the wants of one part of the community an exercise for the
compassion of the other. As in different circumstances, the faults of
one part of mankind are an exercise for the forbearance of the other.
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