Christian fiction; Conduct of life -- Fiction; Didactic fiction; Mate selection -- Fiction
"A discreet woman," said Mr. Stanley, "adjusts her expenses to her
revenues. Every thing knows its time, and every person his place. She
will live within her income, be it large or small; if large, she will
not be luxurious; if small, she will not be mean. Proportion and
propriety are among the best secrets of domestic wisdom; and there is no
surer test, both of integrity and judgment, than a well-proportioned
expenditure.
"Now the point to which I would bring all this verbiage," continued he,
"is this--will a lady of a mean understanding, or a vulgar education, be
likely to practice economy on this large scale? And is not such economy
a field in which a woman of the best sense may honorably exercise her
powers?"
Miss Sparkes, who was always a stanch opposer in moral as well as in
political debate, because she said it was the best side for the exertion
of wit and talents, comforted herself that though she felt she was
completely in the minority, yet she always thought that was rather a
proof of being right than the contrary; for if it be true, that the
generality are either weak or wicked, it follows that the inferior
number is most likely to be neither.
"Women," said Mr. Carlton, "in their course of action describe a smaller
circle than men; but the perfection of a circle consists not in its
dimensions but in its correctness. There may be," added he, carefully
turning away his eyes from Miss Sparkes, "here and there a soaring
female, who looks down with disdain on the party affairs of 'this dim
speck called earth;' who despises order and regularity as indications of
a groveling spirit. But a sound mind judges directly contrary. The
larger the capacity, the wider is the sweep of duties it takes in. A
sensible woman loves to imitate that order which is stamped on the whole
creation of God. All the operations of nature are uniform even in their
changes, and regular in their infinite variety. Nay, the great Author of
Nature himself disdains not to be called the God of order."
"I agree with you," said Sir John. "A philosophical lady may 'read
Malebranche, Boyle, and Locke;' she may boast of her intellectual
superiority; she may talk of abstract and concrete; of substantial forms
and essences; complex ideas and mixed modes, of identity and relation;
she may decorate all the logic of one sex with all the rhetoric of the
other; yet if her affairs are _delabre_, if her house is disorderly, her
servants irregular, her children neglected, and her table ill-arranged,
she will indicate the want of the most valuable faculty of the human
mind, a sound judgment."
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