United States -- Social life and customs -- To 1775; Women -- United States
As I have in this memorandum taken scarcely any notice of my wife’s
employments, it might appear as if her engagements were very trifling;
the which is not the case but the reverse. And to do her justice
which her services deserved, by entering them minutely, would take
up most of my time, for this genuine reason, how that from early
in the morning till late at night she is constantly employed in the
affairs of the family, which for four months has been very large; for
besides the addition to our family in the house, it is a constant
resort of comers and goers which seldom go away with dry lips and
hungry bellies. This calls for her constant attendance, not only to
provide, but also to attend at getting prepared in the kitchen, baking
our bread and pies, meat &c. and also the table. Her cleanliness
about the house, her attendance in the orchard, cutting and drying
apples of which several bushels have been procured; add to which her
making of cider without tools, for the constant drink of the family,
her seeing all our washing done, and her fine clothes and my shirts,
the which are all smoothed by her; add to this, her making of twenty
large cheeses, and that from one cow, and daily using with milk and
cream, besides her sewing, knitting &c. Thus she looketh well to the
ways of her household, and eateth not the bread of idleness; yea she
also stretcheth out her hand, and she reacheth forth her hand to her
needy friends and neighbors. I think she has not been above four times
since her residence here to visit her neighbors; nor through mercy has
she been sick for any time, but has at all times been ready in any
affliction to me or my family as a faithful nurse and attendant both
day and night.
Such laudatory references to the goodwife as these abound through the
_Remembrancer_.
My tender wife keeps busily engaged and looks upon every Philadelphian
who comes to us as a person suffering in a righteous cause; and
entitled to partake of her hospitality which she administers with her
labor and attendance with great freedom and alacrity....
My dear wife meets little respite all the day, the proverb being
verified, that Woman’s Work is never done.
I owe my health to the vigilance, industry and care of my wife who
really has been and is a blessing unto me. For the constant assiduity
and press of her daily and painful labor in the kitchen, the Great
Lord of the Household will reward her in due time.
It seems that so generous and noble a woman should have had a reward
in this world, as well as the next, for, besides her kitchen duties,
she was a “nonsuch gardner, working bravely in her garden,” and a first
class butter-maker, who constantly supplied her poor neighbors with
milk, and yet always had cream to spare for her dairy.
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