United States -- Social life and customs -- To 1775; Women -- United States
I send by the bearer the last volume of Pamela. She is a good girl and
as such I love her dearly, but I must think her very defective, and
even blush for her while she allows herself that disgusting liberty
of praising herself, or what is very like it, repeating all the fine
speeches made to her by others,--when a person distinguished for
modesty in every other respect should have chosen rather to conceal
them, or at least let them come from some other hand; especially as
she might have considered those high compliments might have proceeded
from the partiality of her friends, or with a view to encourage her
and make her aspire after those qualifications which are ascribed to
her, which I know experimentally to be often the case. But then you
answer, she was a young country girl, had seen nothing of life, and
it was natural for her to be pleased with praise, and she had not art
enough to conceal it. True, before she was Mrs. B. it was excusable
when only wrote to her father and mother, but after she had the
advantage of Mr B’s conversation, and others of sense and distinction,
I must be of another opinion. But here arises a difficulty--we are to
be made acquainted by the author of all particulars; how then is it
to be done? I think by Miss Durnford or some other lady very intimate
with Mrs B. How you smile at my presumption for instructing one so far
above my own level as the author of Pamela (whom I esteem much for the
regard he pays to virtue and religion) but contract your smile into a
mortified look for I acquit the author. He designed to paint no more
than a woman, and he certainly designed it as a reflection upon the
vanity of our sex that a character so complete in every other instance
should be so defective in this. Defective indeed when she sometimes
mentions that poor creature Mr H’s applauses it puts me in mind of the
observation in Don Quixote, how grateful is praise even from a madman.
A most popular form of literary intercourse and amusement was
everywhere found in stilted sentimental correspondence, conducted often
under assumed and high-sounding names, usually classical. For instance,
this young lady of Virginia writes to her friend, plain Polly, when
separated for a short time:--
Oh my Marcia how hard is our fate! that we should be deprived of your
dear company, when it would compleat our Felecity--but such is the
fate of Mortals! We are never permitted to be perfectly happy. I
suppose it is all right, else the Supreme Disposer of all things would
have not permitted it, we should perhaps have been more neglectful
than we are of our duty.
She frequently forgets to use the pompous name of Marcia, especially
when writing on any subject that really interests her:--
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