We have spoken about this enviable slumberer at some length, because he
seems instinctively to have got hold of (no credit to him) some of the
points which will be of use to the moderately bad sleeper, whose
condition, we maintain, is wrong. If sleep is required, it is as
pitiable not to get it as not to be able to eat without indigestion when
hungry; if sleep is not required, it is as foolish to try to induce it
as to eat when one is not hungry, also with indigestion. But to draw the
lesson from this enviable slumberer, though much that he does would
murder sleep like Macbeth (witness his odious habit of working
immediately before going to bed), still much that he does is sensible.
Pre-eminently sensible, for instance, is his acquired habit of not
bothering about it, for the wondering whether one is going to go to
sleep is in many cases quite sufficient to keep one awake. Go to bed
assuming naturally, not with insistence, for that would spoil it all,
that you _are_ going to sleep, or to use a phrase from hypnotism, make
the suggestion that you are. You will not succeed in capturing this
attitude the first time you try, nor yet the second, but before long you
probably will; probably, also, when you have done so, you will become a
good sleeper. But if this fails, what then? You will lie awake, that is
all, and you will not die of it. But if you fret about it you will lose
all the benefit of the act of resting, which is very great. To lie
still with twitching nerves, agonising for sleep, will not only not
bring sleep, but it will deprive you of rest. You lie awake. Be it
so--at any rate, rest.
Here innumerable complications enter. You may think it is a noise that
is keeping you awake. Someone, who ought to be in bed, is moving about
directly above you. Do not get irritated and think over the biting
things you will say to-morrow. The morrow will take care of itself.
Supposing there was a gale blowing, you would acquiesce in the Natural
Law, and in consequence would go to sleep sooner, because you were not
irritated. And irritation, it must be remembered, should be wholly
within our control; in this case to get it in control is an essential
preliminary to sleep. While you are cross you will not sleep. Therefore,
cease to be cross. A greater distraction would calm your irritation;
let the desire for calmness calm it.
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