Again, more systematic study of the subject in a general way must remove
much of the ignorance, as well as of the aversion, that undoubtedly
exists in regard to this occupation. Public sentiment has not yet
demanded that when a woman assumes the care of a household she shall
possess at least a theoretical knowledge of household affairs; it is
deemed sufficient if she acquire it afterward at an enormous cost of
time, patience, energy, sometimes even of domestic happiness. But
public sentiment will make such demand when the economic functions of
housekeeping are understood. Until a larger number of housekeepers
understand at least the rudiments of the profession they have adopted, it
is to be expected that ignorant and inexperienced employees will waste
the substance of their employers, and fail to become skilled laborers,
and that able, intelligent, and ambitious girls will be unwilling
to enter an occupation in which the employers are as untrained in a
scientific way as are the employees. Water cannot rise higher than its
source. As long as inefficient service is accepted inefficient service
will be rendered; as long as mistresses are ignorant of the difference
between rights and extraordinary privileges, employees, like children,
will continue to be spoiled by careless indulgence; “as long as women
hate kitchen and household cares, and servants know that they know
more than their employers, just so long will employers everywhere have
eye-servants.”
A different conception must also come in regard to the work of woman,
especially where the factor of remuneration is involved. An explanation
is still needed for the fact that idleness is practically regarded as a
vice in men and a virtue in women;[293] that a young man is condemned
by society for saying “the world owes me a living,” while a young woman
is praised for her womanliness when she says it by her life; that a
wealthy woman must not receive remuneration for services for which
compensation would be accepted by a wealthy man or by a poor woman. This
does not mean that all women should engage in business enterprises, but
that it should be honorable for them to do so, dishonorable for them to
be ignorant of all means of self-support, and that they should receive
adequate remuneration for all public services performed when men would
be paid under the same circumstances. Household employments are too
often in effect, though less often than in theory, belittled by both
men and women, and they will continue to be until there is the freest
industrial play in all occupations for women as well as for men. As long
as household employments performed without remuneration are the only
occupations for women looked upon with favor by society at large, just
so long will this free industrial play be lacking. One effect of this
is seen in the case of very many mothers who have been overworked and
overburdened by household cares. The pendulum swings to the opposite
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