Comparatively little can be done in the ordinary private home to meet
these difficulties; but even if much could be done, it is at least
an open question whether this would be the true remedy. In large
establishments sitting-rooms can be provided for employees, but such
establishments are few in number, and the fact that such rooms are in the
home of another prevents that “good time,” the craving for which is so
natural. Many employers are glad to give personal instruction evenings,
but solitary instruction is even more defective for the domestic than
it is for the children of the family. Enthusiasm must always come with
numbers, and comparatively little can be done for employees through
this means. But social opportunities and intellectual advantages can
be provided, as has been done so successfully in the case of the
employees of shops and factories. Social life everywhere tends towards
clubs, societies, and organizations. Domestics can be encouraged to form
clubs and societies through which parlors can be provided for social
intercourse, and reading-rooms where intellectual needs will be met.
If the domestic employee were taken from the home of the employer and
encouraged to find for herself avenues of improvement and entertainment,
her social condition would be greatly improved. She must be made to
see that the reason why she does not rise to the social position to
which she aspires, is not because her work is degrading, but because
her conversation is often ungrammatical and lacking in interest, her
dress sometimes untidy and devoid of taste, and her manner not always
agreeable. She must do her part towards improving her social condition.
It is true, that probably at first comparatively few domestics would
avail themselves of such privileges, _but just as long as social and
intellectual advantages do not exist anywhere for this class, just so
long will the intelligent and capable young woman most needed in this
occupation shun it for others where such opportunities do exist_.
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