“Before the introduction of Chinese labor a young girl never lost social
caste by doing housework; but since this element came, household service
as an occupation has fallen in the social scale.”—_Employer._
“When a native American girl goes out to housework she loses caste at
once, and can hardly find pleasure in the foreign immigrants that form
the majority of servants, and who make most of the trouble from their
ignorance and preconceived notions of America.”—_Employer._
[264] “The reason for dislike of housework is the want of liberty, and
the submission which girls have to submit to when they have to comply
with whatever rules a mistress may deem necessary. Therefore many girls
go into mechanical pursuits, that some of their life may be their own.”
“Girls in housework are bossed too much.”
“There are too many mistresses in the house when the mother and grown-up
daughters are all at home.”
“Most of us would like a little more independence, and to do our work as
we please.”
“In housework you receive orders from half a dozen persons, in a shop or
factory from but one.”
“A man doesn’t let his wife and daughters and sons interfere in the
management of his mill or factory—why does a housekeeper let everybody in
the house boss?”
[265] A description of domestic service in Japan is of value on this
point. “From the steward of your household, to your _jinrikisha_ man or
groom, every servant in your establishment does what is right in his own
eyes, and after the manner he thinks best. Mere blind obedience to orders
is not regarded as a virtue in a Japanese servant; he must do his own
thinking, and, if he cannot grasp the reason for your order, that order
will not be carried out.” “Even in the treaty ports [Japanese attendants]
have not resigned their right of private judgment, but, if faithful and
honest, seek the best good of their employer, even if his best good
involves disobedience of his orders.”—Alice M. Bacon, _Japanese Girls and
Women_, pp. 299, 301.
F. R. Feudge, in _How I Kept House by Proxy_, quotes from her Chinese
cook, who said that he could boast of forty years “of study and practice
in his profession.” “I am always willing to be told _what_ to do, but
never _how_ to execute the order—especially when in that department
I happen to know far more than my teachers.”—_Scribner’s Monthly_,
September, 1881.
[266] A shrewd young colored woman gives her version, verbally, of the
servant question. She lays great stress on her own “bringin’ up,” as “she
wa’n’t brung up by trash,” and thinks the average colored girl “only a
nigger.” She prefers to live “at service,” but insists upon “high-toned”
employers, and “can’t abide common folks.”
[267] “In some families no acquaintance can call on the servant; she may
have one or two friends, but the number is always limited, because, says
the lady of the house, not without truth, ‘Who wants a dozen strange
girls running in and out of one’s back door?’”
Public-domain text, read in full here on John Shaqi.
Reviews
Reviews
No reviews yet
Be the first to share your thoughts on this work.
Elsewhere in the archive
Join the Discussion
Join the discussion
Sign in to leave a comment or review.
Sign InorCreate an account