Beale, Dorothea, 1831-1906; Cheltenham Ladies' College -- History; Teachers -- England -- Biography
‘In life, prizes must be to a great extent the reward of
thoughtful industry, and it seems to me that on the one hand
we may thereby teach the children to put success at its true
value, and point out to them that it is at the bar of our own
conscience alone that we must stand approved or condemned;
that on the other hand they may learn to bear disappointment
patiently. I do not find that prizes create any feelings of
jealousy or ill-will, nor can I blame a child who looks forward
with pleasure to carrying home to her parents this proof that
she has tried to do as they would have her. It appears to me
a matter of less importance than is usually supposed, and in
any case can affect only a few pupils at the head of a class.
Stimulants to exertion, however, are rarely needed. There are
very few who are not interested and earnest in their work, and
our difficulty is more frequently to check too great zeal, and
to insist on the observation of those limits we place to the
time devoted to study than to demand more.’
The high ideal of _deserving_ rather than _gaining_ was what Miss Beale
set before herself as true wealth to be desired. So she was careful, when
the management of large public funds and a much increased personal income
came to her, to remain as frugal, as poor as ever. It was not merely that
she liked simplicity. Her simplicity of life was a deliberate intention.
There was a personal note in the fervour with which she would read the
words of Abraham to the king of Sodom: ‘I will not take from a thread
even to a shoe-latchet, ... lest thou shouldest say, I have made Abram
rich.’ No monk was ever more faithful to his chosen bride of Poverty than
Miss Beale remained with her large income and successful investments. She
was consistent also in preferring for those she loved a simple personal
life, which would leave mind and time free for thought and the needs of
others.
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