Beale, Dorothea, 1831-1906; Cheltenham Ladies' College -- History; Teachers -- England -- Biography
The paper which Miss Beale intended should be read at College prayers on
her death was not found at the time. This was well. She certainly had not
weighed what the effect of her words, written with calm deliberate detail
years before, would be if read to assembled numbers at the very moment of
shock and loss.
In this paper she first explained the directions she had left in her will
about the funeral:—
‘First let me say I have put in my will two things, which have
to do with the disposal of this perishable body.
‘(1) I desire that it should be cremated. It seems so wrong to
place in the ground the disease germs which may injure others,
when they could be destroyed. No feeling of sentiment should
hinder our doing what is reasonable or right.
‘(2) I have asked, and I hope my wish may be respected by all,
that no flowers should be bought for my funeral. They are
beautiful emblems, and if any could gather a few wild flowers
or bring a few from their own gardens, it would be good, but
I should not like any wholesale destruction, any waste of
life, even with wild flowers, and it seems to me quite wrong
to spend large sums in decking a grave, when there is so much
to be done for the living. If the present pupils and teachers
were to give only sixpence each it would come to about £30, and
if we take in old pupils and friends, and those who give much
more, I fear a large sum would be wasted, which, wisely spent,
would not perish like cut flowers, but bear real fruit. Still,
flowers are all beautiful things, and gifts of our Father to
teach and cheer us: they are patterns of things in the heavens,
and flowers speak to us of ἀνάστασις, rising. I often said to
you I do not like the word resurrection because it means rising
again, and gives the impression that the body that rises is the
same that was buried; whereas St. Paul has taught that we sow
not that body that shall be.’
But this was only a preface. She spoke chiefly of rising through death to
fuller and higher life,—of the purification which all who would see God
must desire. Finally she asked:—
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