‘I do not want you to be dependent on man, but it is the order of God’s providence that He sends disciples to lead others to Him, and so we are to help one another. And you have a period of trouble before you, outward and inward, until you are able to stand upon the rock once more. Trust God if you should have to walk through that dark valley where you cannot see Him. Each trial will one day result in joy,—the joy of being able to help other troubled souls especially. He descended into Hades, He rose again! I shall remember you in prayer, and I shall ask prayers for you at St. Peter’s, of course without their knowing the least who you are, but that you are suffering and in darkness. Be patient and I think your father’s heart will come back.’ To the same:— ‘_1882._ ‘Now, my dear child, do not fret about this trial. Just try to look up and wait. I believe your father’s heart will come back. You see he has obeyed his opinions before, and truth is like the sun which ever rises higher upon our earthly day, and does not sink as the natural sun. We need sometimes to remember the words, “Call no man your father upon earth.” I mean that there is the all-embracing Fatherhood, in which we see all earthly relations: we do not, must not, cast those off, but they must be swallowed up in the greater. Write to me whenever you feel it would comfort you, I will try to help you, until you feel again that you need not outward help.... One feels more and more how slowly one learns and how infinite is God’s truth; how one need’s patience and deep humility, and utter faith in Him who is the Light.’ To the same:— ‘_January 1883._ ‘My poor child, you must not grieve thus. Since God loves your father, He is giving to him only that discipline, whatever it be that is necessary. Yes, believe this, even though the suffering has come through you, for we must believe it _universally_. I do not say you will not suffer for it, or that there may not have been some wrong in it on your part. But if, as you know, he does wish you to know and serve God more perfectly, then through this God is leading him on to know and serve Him better, and you must trust God to know _what_ He is about. You _must_ go on for your own sake (and for the sake of the children God has given you), seeking for light.’ To the same:— ‘_January 1883._ ‘I always feel as if I must write by return. Your letters draw out my heart to you so. I am glad you went and felt the love shining in on you.